No erection for the 1st time ever

[Utility]

I just want to start by giving you a little background on myself before I ask the main question. I am a 31 year old very sexual person. I am almost constantly horny and when I don't have a girlfriend, I usually end up having sex 2-3 times a week with random girls from bars, clubs...
A friend introduced me to a beautiful girl a few months ago and we clicked. We went out a few times and I was very attracted to her physically and obviously sexually. She turned my sexual advances down several times but when we had sex the 1st time, it was magical and very intense. We had sex a few more times and it was equally amazing until we broke up over casual arguments for about 1 month. We decided to meet again and work things out and went to a bar. I am not a very experienced drinker but I had 2 shots of scotch, 1 tall glass of vodka with pineapple and 1 tall glass of yager with coke all within 90 minutes. We then headed to the house, made out and I was fully erect. She led me to the bedroom and as I was readying to penetrate, I lost my erection, which totally surprised me as this has never occurred to me before. After several futile attempts, she just suggested that I please her orally, which I did.
After the deed was done, she jokingly asked: "all it took was 1 month for you not to be attracted to be anymore???". I was totally embarrassed and the only excuse I could come up with was the alcohol although I wasn't noticeably tipsy!
A day later, to compound the issue, she seemed very distant the following 2 days and now I am very anxious. For the past 3 days, my penis hasn't been erect (while before just the thought of her would give me a full erection) and my testicle sack has been uncharacteristically very loose. I tried to drink some foods that are high in protein and zinc but it's not doing the trick and I am afraid I may have performance anxiety the next time we attempt to have sex (if that ever happens). Also, I can't help to wonder what she is now thinking about my sexual prowess and whether this is going to affect our relationship negatively. Please advise...

[jimpy9]

v.amazing story there is viagra to help an erection if need b, all the best wit the girl , u sound lik a good couple

[SLadylani]

Well it sounds like you really like this girl if you're thinking about her so much! My first thought is that especially if you are not used to drinking a high volume of alcohol, the the drinks were the cause of the first loss of erection. That is actually a common occurence when guys drink, and usually most girls know that-depending on their age and experience with bars and drinking. I also think that you're right about the possibility of your current state of panic and anxiety affecting your next performance and your current condition. I hope that it at least eases you some to know that it is completely normal for guys to loose an erection when they drink, and it does not mean there is something wrong with you. And personally, if this girl is going to let this one time encounter affect the way she feels about you, then that should speak about the girl's nature right there. Right now I would say it is out of your hands and it's up to the girl to give you a call. What I suggest is that trusting that your normal, non-drunken body, knows what to do, and has known for all these years, and not fretting about the anxiety and the next time you two might have an encouter. The more confidence you have in yourself the more this problem will dissipate. Right now you're probably just a little turned-off/shyed away from sex which is why you're experiencing the symptoms you are. This occurence understandably scared you. So best to move on, stay distracted, and remember, you can keep this a one time occurence. If the girl doesn't call, remember it's best off that way as she judged you and changed her feelings about you for the wrong reasons. So go on leading your life as normal, and all this shall pass :) I wish you the best of luck and am sending my best wishes your way. Take care and remember to relax!

Sara RN