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Why am I suddenly not able to keep erections at 16?
My girlfriend and I have recently started having vaginal sex three weeks ago and the first two times went great, but suddenly I am having lots of trouble getting or keeping erections. We are very sexually active, and usually have sex when we see each other, which is almost every day. When we started a long time ago, it was only oral or manual, and we were able to go multiple rounds a day. Now we are lucky if I can even go one. I used to jack off multiple times a day too but now it's just really hard to get going and I'm really terrified. This is completely unnatural for me. I don't have any health problems, I don't drink, smoke, or do any drugs. Please help me.
If you jack off more that u have sex I would assume you are watching porn while doing it. Then that means your brain will no longer have a drive for a woman.
My suggestion is stop jacking off for a while
My suggestion is stop jacking off for a while
I would agree with jaack234 that you should ease up on the masturbating. I also believe physically it's not good on that area to masturbate so much
Could see what you notice if you ease up on it
I'd also say be careful with how you masturbate which never seems to be brought up. Mimicking intercourse by bringing your hand up and down the penis I think is the safest. Jerking the penis at its base back and forth to and away from your stomach can injure it I believe
I don't want you to freak out and never have sex or something but know that it is a part of the body that can get injured like any other so keep that in mind when you're using it
There can be many different causes to ED. If you really wanted to have it checked out, the first test a urologist will send you for is an ultrasound
Could see what you notice if you ease up on it
I'd also say be careful with how you masturbate which never seems to be brought up. Mimicking intercourse by bringing your hand up and down the penis I think is the safest. Jerking the penis at its base back and forth to and away from your stomach can injure it I believe
I don't want you to freak out and never have sex or something but know that it is a part of the body that can get injured like any other so keep that in mind when you're using it
There can be many different causes to ED. If you really wanted to have it checked out, the first test a urologist will send you for is an ultrasound
Prescriptions? Diet? Anxiety?
Be careful being sexually active at your age, I would recommend seeking the advice of a Doctor to put your anxiety at rest. Also, do not be ashamed to have open discussion with your partner about this topic, as that may be a relief to you and also new ideas may blossom. Be sure to practice safe sex, and never underestimate contagious diseases, as they do not discriminate. Good Luck, relax, you'll be fine.
Be careful being sexually active at your age, I would recommend seeking the advice of a Doctor to put your anxiety at rest. Also, do not be ashamed to have open discussion with your partner about this topic, as that may be a relief to you and also new ideas may blossom. Be sure to practice safe sex, and never underestimate contagious diseases, as they do not discriminate. Good Luck, relax, you'll be fine.
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