Thajram, I have the same problem so I understand your frustration. I just had my first appointment with a urologist for this problem. He drew blood for lab work and prescribed Testosterone injections plus Cialis. So far, my penis has that sensation you feel that usually brings on an erection but so far, I masturbate and get maybe 60% hard and then I lose it and it is soft again. The doctor scheduled me back on June 18th, at that time he told me that he is going to give me an injection in my penis that will cause an erection that will last for 2 to 4 hours. At that time he said that he would start measuring rigidity and sensitivity as well as other examination stuff, I don’t know much more. If you would like, we can stay in touch and I will share with you what I learn as I go along. He told me to masturbate often up to three days before my appointment and to make note of the time and duration of each time I try and how hard of an erection I achieve each time and whether or not I reach an orgasm. I have not been able to ejaculate for some time. Can you be more detailed in your experience when you masturbate for instance, you said you get hard but lose your erection in a couple of seconds, can you have an orgasm even when soft? If I give it enough time, I can have a small orgasm without being hard but it takes about an hour or more. Have you tried a vibrator, it helps.