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cant get erection for having sex

experience that i cant seem to get penis hard when going to have sex it will not get up,only realize when by myself it will get hard like couple second or so an go down to dead..appreciate any help or advice...
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Thajram, I have the same problem so I understand your frustration. I just had my first appointment with a urologist for this problem. He drew blood for lab work and prescribed Testosterone injections plus Cialis. So far, my penis has that sensation you feel that usually brings on an erection but so far, I masturbate and get maybe 60% hard and then I lose it and it is soft again. The doctor scheduled me back on June 18th, at that time he told me that he is going to give me an injection in my penis that will cause an erection that will last for 2 to 4 hours. At that time he said that he would start measuring rigidity and sensitivity as well as other examination stuff, I don’t know much more. If you would like, we can stay in touch and I will share with you what I learn as I go along. He told me to masturbate often up to three days before my appointment and to make note of the time and duration of each time I try and how hard of an erection I achieve each time and whether or not I reach an orgasm. I have not been able to ejaculate for some time. Can you be more detailed in your experience when you masturbate for instance, you said you get hard but lose your erection in a couple of seconds, can you have an orgasm even when soft? If I give it enough time, I can have a small orgasm without being hard but it takes about an hour or more. Have you tried a vibrator, it helps.
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hi there thanks for sharing ur details...i can get ejaculate during masturbation only when it hard the point is if i play with it will get hard an in around 30 second it will get soft an dead as for sexual intercourse i cant get hard no matter how i try it will not get hard try relax an focus not successful thanks an appreciate your details an sure will love to know it go with your doctor...at the moment tjinling to visit doctor...its frustrating an embarrassing
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