hi
i hope somone can give me some advice on this.
my history:
i am in the early 30s, not overweight, fairly healthy.
a few years ago i had unprotected sex with a girl, straight after the sex (she had just finished her periods) i felt burning sensations on my penis, ( we both tested for std and were neg) the nurning continued constantly, i couldnt get strong erections so a few days later i masterbated and i only ejaculated a few drops, i then straight away got pains in my right testicle and the whole penis and my stomach as if i was kicked in my testicles, i did go gp who gave me a few antibiotics, for a few weeks, they didnt help, what helped a few weeks later was to refrain from masterbation yhe burning disappeared after 10 days, i also did try having sex again i remember hurting my penis during sexual intercourse to but was ok after.
my sperm volume improved alittle but is less then half the amount it was, it did also change colour to a yellowish colour for a few weeks when the problem began, but is a normal colour now.
i am left with weak soft erections, all prostrate symptoms, my ejaculation doesnt feel right, i feel that i ejaculate but not all comes out, feels blocked this gets sooo frustration.
MY MAIN CONCERN:
my main concern and the reason for posting is the penis, its weak and when i masterbate the penis hurts, the inside spongie muscle feels inflamed, even if i have a slight arousal without touching it starts to burn alittle, during the erection process the bottom half of the shaft seems like its stronger, (from above view) as you go further up towards the middle it curves in from both sides slightly the right curves more, then it curves out as you go to the head of the penis, it is so much weaker/softer the further up it goes, i have to squeeze and pull it slightly to lose this curve and to make it slightly harder, feels almost like the blood is blocked and i have to squeeze it through, it hurts to masterbate by pulling down on the shaft towards my body i can masterbate with no pain by pulling away from me.
after i do manage to get some ejaculation, somtimes its a drop somtimes its more ( i noticed of i ejaculate after sitting in a hott bath i get less sperm, but if i wait till the next day after sitting in the hot bath i feel better and get alittle more ejaculation at times, the penis normally used to go small as the blood drains out after ejaculation, but now the head of the penis remains larger also penis starts to burn contantly. when im slightly aroused the penis isn't flexible from the middle, if i bend it slightly to the left it will remain there and slowly straighten, also same to the right.
i have a urology appointment soon, just need advice on this what can this be, i've been living with this for a few years, i did try once before bit was turned away by a urologist as he said im thinking he didnt check or examine me and said it was in my head.
what can i ask fot testing wise, what qestions do i need to ask and what should i focus on?
thank you