You have not seen a physician Eye MD for a problem that I feel needs an Eye MD rather than leaving you hanging as the optom did. See an ophthalmologist, ask for an optic nerve OCT, simple test can tell if you have optic nerve drusen or any of the other causes of true papilledema or pseudopapilledema. I suspect with the superior training and instrumentation you only will need office tests and that the Eye MD will be able to set your mind at ease.