Better late than never... I went to one (private) clinic which recommended a toric lens and said I was unsuitable for Tetraflex because of my astigmatism. The guy seemed really annoyed that I was trying to suggest a preferred IOL and that he was having to explain why I couldn't have it.
Because of the stroppy vibe (after a brief email exchange he basically told me to get a second opinion) I went to Optical Express. Their scans showed most of the astigmatism was being caused by distortion because of the cataracts in my lenses, not the shape of my eyes and Tetraflex was indeed an option.
It was a bit of a bun fight to get it bilaterally but in the end that's what I got, over 4 years ago now.
No halos, no glare, no neuroadaptation issues. UV protection as standard. I can read the tiny writing on food packets at arms length under a strong light in our kitchen, kindle Paperwhite at 8-10" no problem, at 4" in bed needs a +1 reader. Distance vision is absolutely superb in all conditions. 3D movies, no issues at all.
The only problem with night driving is that my eyes let in so much light now that modern Xenon headlights are very dazzling but there are no noticeable artefacts from the implants. I am absolutely delighted.
Given your high astigmatism, you sound like a good candidate for Alcon's toric IOL. I believe it comes in an aspheric version. With both eyes at plano, everything within arm's length (not 6 feet) will be blurry without glasses. A good alternative would be mini-monovision--leaving your non-dominant eye just a little nearsighted. This should not be difficult to adjust to, and it will give you a wider range of vision. (You'd still need glasses for most reading but your intermediate vision would be improved.)
You might want to get another opinion from a surgeon who is very experienced with the Crystalens. Since this lens does not correct astigmatism, you would need to do something (LASIK?) to address your astigmatism.