I am not a doctor by all means, but I have noticed for years that my six year old daughters eyes stay dilated. She also has a tendency to cross them (purposely) I have had major behavior issues with her. She is developmentally delayed and simply will not follow directions or behave. She is going to be held back in school this year, first grade, because she will not do the work. She is capable she just refuses. I would not rule out the two being related in some way. My daughter has more than behavior problems, she cannot get herself under control. I do feel that it is worth the research.
Well big pupils don't cause behaviour problems (why do people call problems "issues"?) and behaviour problems don't cause big pupils.
The pupils are larger in children and teenagers than any other time of life. (Smallest as infants and as very old).
There is a big difference between having big pupils (that react normally) and having dilated pupils that don't react to light or attempts to focus.
If the latter a visit to a neuro-ophthalmologist is in order.
JCH MD