I 31 and div. -what I think may be the begining and include all that I can remember cause I think most of it is relevant.1995 start work cleaning at night restraunt-cooks chicken. I-subcontractor using heavy chemicals-clean. Suddenly when I eat get dizzy,sluggish,bloated,want to sleep not do anything. Kind of like on drug/something.Start have blood in stool.Go to VA ER for Gastro and blood.Digital exam,say prostate slight swollen,maybe hemroid,give malox. Malox no work-problem more like not digesting. I get digestive enzymes from Vitamin store. They help.Have problem more and less since then. 1997 Jan son born. Jun 97 3some with wife&cousin. Sept 97 Separation fm wife.Dec 97 move in another woman(4-6 mon)and start Zoloft for dep.Her nurse,remember her saying had yeast infect(before me)taking the gel-stuff that you put in you before you go to bed all night-no use.Had to take Diflucan.Takes Diflucan periodically/make sure doesn't/come back.Penis start staying fuller,like between flacid&aroused.Thought cool.Seemed more feeling there,thought Zoloft. Stopped either before/after left her. After left started getting little red bumps around waist area,top of feet,under arms,top of head,groin area. Itched like hell.Usually when asleep/sleepy.Went to doc.Said scabies.Used medicine-no work.Went back-same thing-no work.Got dog shampoo-same igred-no work-desperate.Finally subside,come back,subside-long time-even now. And eat-dizzy,sleepy etc. even now.Start when I sit down deficate milky stuff in water come from penis.Me part color blind never no what color exact.Go to doc-urine test-negative.New girlfriend-fine-then-after while vagina-fishy smell. Told her go to doc.He give her and me Flagyl.Smell gone-I seem fine till 2so weeks after-all back.With her months-still eat prob,sometimes heart-burn.Leave her.By myself-sleep alot-rest.After month or so evthing seem better.New girlfr.4-5 month back.Gets worse.Milky stuff from penis when deficate,slight burning after that,burning after orgasim sometimes,freq urinate,all time,feel bloated esp eat.Go to doc.Urine neg.Go back-neg.Start orgasim during sex don't even feel,oral sex awesome still.Go to urologist-no test,no dig exam,give Levoquin.Me on 3 mon.Get better but no go away,that bout 6 mon ago.During time with girlfriend when lot of oral sx she get headaches,joint pains,heartburn,and seem stomach get like mine.My observation,she not complain,she love to,me no tell.She big-bone girl,love to eat-now get full fast-stomach not feel good after eat-get like me,not right.I lost about 30 pd in last year1/2.Not been this since 16.When no eat feel good-eat feel like ****.Oh yes,when had,bumps,itching in groin-thought had scar-fm my itching.Now girlfriend got big red fluid filled bump on leg part of groin.Fin went down but still big purple mark.Then another next to it but harder like giant zit.Then notice same thing as mine-no scar but track-like stretchmark.She said no itch.Would explain more and pay to do so. Diagnosis?