dietary changes can help in most people:
limit sodium
limit vit c
limit oxalate
increase fluid intake
increase calcium intake (contrary to intuition)
those collections are to see how the kidneys are functioning, which i suppose are normal in her case
Have you had a 24 hour urine collection. I suffered from kidney stones and had a couple of those done, it is not fun (espeically because you can eat no dairy for 72 hours) but it can help. Also if your stones are calcium in composition you may want to ask your doctor about a low dose water pill, it seemed to help me a lot
Your calcium level is below what's average for asymptomatic hyperparathyroidism, 11.1
That is to say, for people without symptoms related to hyperparathyroidism have an average calcium higher than yours.
It's not high enough to say that you have hyperparathyroidism even though you have stones, which can be related to hyperparathyroidism.
Often, with minimal elevations, "wait and see" is the most prudent since it most often comes back normal when rechecked