Help! Healthy just turned 36yr that is going on almost 1 yr without having a menstral cycle. My irregular cycle started when I left my husband (who I had been w/since I was 16) @almost 32. Prior healthy weight till I turned 30-and gained unexplained 30 lbs.( I lost thru eating right and excerise) Never been able to be on birth control for very long, but had normal cycles with no PMS or pain. From 33-35 had maybe 14periods total. Last year, stress of working two jobs, school, buying a house and losing my little 18yr brother has affected my fertility. My periods have stopped and I have some hot flashes. So, I went to my OBGYN who did some testing. My FSH was 110, I gained the 30lbs back, normal PAPs, normal thyroid, normal metabolic, kidney function,no diabetes, no high blood pressure,no vitamin dificiencys,never smoked nor drink, only drink hot tea's and water only, eat very healthy and exercise. Was told I was the picture of health that my labs were better than a 20yr old. I have never had the flu and its been over 5 yrs since I had common cold. My OBGYN put me on generic HRT, (patch and progesterone pills) I was losing weight (going to fat clinic Dr) but now the HRT is making me feel like crap and gaining more weight. At this point, I'm at loss, cause I just dont know where turn. I have one Dr who is going to help me with bioidential hormones and other Dr OBGYN that is doesn't think outside the box. She said that I was in premature meno and that I couldnt a have another baby. That I would have to do egg donor. I thank God for my two teenagers that I have now. Any one have any suggestion?