Do you know what your antral follical count was on day 2 or 3 of your cycle?
I am 36 and my first IVF attempt was cancelled due to poor stimulation ( 2 follicles were resonding). My antral follicle count was 10 and the other levels were normal. They believe that the Lupron over-supressed me. While Lupron is used a bunch, this is apparently a very common side effect and without any indication of egg reserve. If you used Lupron, you may want to talk with your physician about a different protocol. I will be trying an IVF in November/December using a protocal with Ganirelix. My doctors seemed cautiously optomistic and assured me that his does not mean I have a diminished ovarian reserve. I am also dealing with male factor.
Good luck! I know exactly how you feel!
I wish you the very best of luck! Please keep us posted :)
My first IVF cycle was cancelled too because of lack of stimulation - I couldn't get those follies to get big enough but I was 10 years older than you too - at your age, I would think your odds of getting pg w/IVF are lot higher than mine even w/a high FSH number.
I wish you good luck in your upcoming cycle - hope everything works out and you get some big follies!! SSBD!