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Hopebaby...any news

Hopebaby do you have any news for us..hopefully you have good news to share...
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no gerberia, no news from my side.... havent yet tested, maybe in the weekend.

how are u feeling??
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Physically I'm ok just a few cramps...here and there emotionally I have my moments..but everyday it gets better.

Dont forget to let us know when you test? maybe you will be the lucky one.
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So waiting to hear from you.

Gerberia,Dainsey how r u both holding up?
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gerberia so glad to hear that ur feeling much better each day.

dainsey how are u doing?? havent heard from u!

gurls.... me..... sorry tmi, but having those white discharge,but its dark dark red, every now and then. and having stomach cramps too, its sign for AF right?? :((
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Hi girls,
Hopebaby07: so the discharge is dark red?  Are you around the time of implantation??  Could be!

Gerberia...how are you?

I'm doing so-so...I was so depressed yesterday as I just know it's going to take forever to get my hcg levels back to zero and all that is is depressing time waiting...waiting...waiting...

I want them to help figure out why I've lost two pregnancies when my HCG levels both times were 6000 and more....
Oh well :-(

Dena01...how are you doing?
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no its not implantation time, AF is due anytime now!!!! :((
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I woke up very depressed today..I cant stop crying..I get so sad when I feel all my symptoms and yet I know my baby is gone...

My doctor called me yesturday to see how i was feeling, he was so sweet he said, that he wants me to know that Idid nothing wrong..that its just a chromosomal thing..just like you said dainsey..that their was probably something not right after implantation...and that I can call him to talk anytime..amazing I love my doct.

Hopebaby dont give up...hope it can be implantation bleeding...I started the implantation bleeding with light pink thenwent to dark brown.
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sometimes implantation happens at time that af is due.  did you test?
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oh really, hmm... no didnt test as of now, probably will after couple of hrs, if nothing starts...then thought i will test.

that was so sweet of ur doc. it really makes u feel so happy when the doc responds that way. dont worry, now u'll know what the problem is, maybe the next cycle everything will work out, and even for dainsey too.

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so when is ur IUI?? all the best!!! when do u go for ur first u/s to check for follicles, i really hope u have nice big ones!!! :)
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nope gurls,,AF is in full force. :(( so we have finally planned to take off for couple of months, cant take it anymore...its too much sometimes!!!

so dena hopefully u'll be able to give us some good news this month!!!
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Hopebaby: I'm so sorry to hear that AF is here :-(  Do you mind if I ask...have they done any fertility testing on you to see what is happening?  Do u ovulate on your own?  

Gerberia...I know how you feel and I'm sorry ur so sad...I've been the same way for the last few days and I so sad I can't even cry any more...I just sit on the couch and stare at the tv....
I'm encouraged to hear your RE say that it was most likely chromosonal as this gives us  hope that it will happen!  We just have to pick ourselves back up and continue trying...
I do believe that 2007 is going to be the year for all of us!

Dena01: We're all hoping you're the one this month!!
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Dainsey...yes..it gives us hope...and my doctor being so optimistic give me even more hope. We will get through this together as no one else really understands the empytiness...i know my mom feels bad but I know she doesnt really understand my pain, and empytiness in my heart.  this miscarriage is so much harder than the last one because the last one I really didntknow i was pregnant untill i was actually miscarrying..

Hopebaby...we are taking a month off too and after that month I'll see how I'm feeling about the next month...I think I have to heal about this loss before I can try again.  Hopebaby...do you ovulate on your own? what does your RE say?

Dena..its on you no pressure though :)  ---good luck.

Today we have a kids birthday party..dont know if I'm really up to it...but might go just to get out of the house and have a few drinks with friends.
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hi gurls,

yes i do ovulate on my own, even my temps show that and also when i did progesterone tests, it did show....well i dont know what happened this month, but i had 2 good eggs when the u/s was done before the hcg shot. even DH has good count and everything.

i am currently seeing an ob/gyn, she is also a fertility specialist. was actually discussing with my hubby about seeing a RE, am even more convinced to go to them when i read another post above about this issue.

will be calling the RE's where DH goes for his sperm wash. and see what they have to say. the doc's in the SIRM website are pretty far for me, otherwise i wanted to go there so badly, they are so good and so responsive too!!

and i will be talking to my gyn too probably on mon or tues....so lets see what happens.

gurls i feel really bad for u that this is the second time its happening. i am sure this time u guys will get preg and carry healthy babies.....
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Hey

Sorry that last month was not good for any of you. But please please don't give up yet. You know 3rd time is a charm.....

Gerberia & Dainsey- hope you both are done with this soon and feel stronger to give this another shot.

I go in to check follies on 3/5(mon).
Shall keep u all posted. Till then SMILE!
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well hopebaby I guess this means you wont be taking any time off.  I think its a good idea that you see an RE.  We are taking about a month off and then see how we feel then.  

Dena..good luck...please let us know your update.

Dainsey how are you feeling...husband took me out to dinner and karoke..last night to help me feel better..it did...but its a temporary fix...I hope you are feeling better.  I yet am not bleeding still spotting...I really think its due to the progesterone but on thursday they will tellme where my levels are and I guess they will let me know if I should get off the progesterone.
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Just got back from the doc. Am not thinking this month is too promising. Today is cd 9(mon) and I have only 2 respectable follicles at 14x12 each and multiple "shameless" smaller follicles. Took another 150u shot today.I know , with people who don't really want a baby, just one follie is more than enough but when am struggling so much I want atleast 5 good follicles :-( .  I go in again tomorrow for another u/s.

How are you all doing?
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Morning girls...
Sorry I didn't really post yesterday...was very down and my DH was trying everything to get my mind off of it..yet it wasn't working :-( I go this morning for more blood work to make sure my levels are going down..

Gerberia...so glad you went out and had some fun...still not bleeding?  When do you go for blood again?

Hopebaby07: Keep us posted when you talk to your doctor...I still think checking in with an RE is beneficial

Dena01: 2 follicles could be all that it takes!  I only had 2 when they gave me the hcg shot.  Are you on injectibles?
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good morning...no bleeding just the same dark dark..spotting doct said it might be because my levels are still not low enough but then why are you bleeding and your levels..are so high..compared to mine right now...
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well ladies..I'm so tired today tired of all this emotional rollercoaster I'm going through...its so exhausting...
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Hey there,
yeah I know what you mean...I fall asleep every night at about 8:00 and getting up is so hard as I'd rather just sleep my days away :-(
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hey gurls,

feeling so bad that both of u are going thru these things. take one day at a time....things will get better for sure. praying for u guys. hopefully the levels comes down and u guys can start a new cycle, and do all the tests and find out why its happening.

me....yeah planning to call the RE tomorrow and see when i can get the appointment, one person in aetna had good performance star they have in aetna, so was thinking will go to him. hopefully i get an appointment.

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hey gurl,

how was ur u/s?? dont worry, the follicles grow ever day....so by the time u have ur IUI they would have grown even more!!! :)

keep us posted!!! all the best!! Sending loads of sticky baby dust virtually!!!
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well I found an accupucturist and she charges $60 and what is even better is that my insurance covers her and therefore I only pay 30...and she charges only 20 for herbs..and she does go by the infertility cure book...she said that she will help uterus and egg quality.
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