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I am at 9dpo...anyone right with me?! Wanting to here your symptoms and news during the holidays!!!

Hi all!  I am at 9dpo and am feeling crampy, hot and sore back...oh and my bbs burn a bit today.  Anyone right with me and experiencing symptoms?  Oh also my temp dipped yesterday and then back up today even though it was 2 hours early today.  Also wondering what an open circle means on the fertility friend chart if anyone uses that one.  Can't wait to hear from you ladies!  Good luck to all!
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hi all!
im new to this but here goes let me know your feedback, or if im just going crazy in my head!
DPO - 3 and 5 white discharge, more hungry than usual
DPO - 7 and 8 tener sore nipples, but this has now stopped nipples a little tender nothing too bad
DPO - 9 today! mild cramping nowhere near as badas my usual period pains usually i cant sit or stand or anythign but this is just uncomfortable it passes in and out - slight pinky color bleed, again not period like.
peeing more than usual for past 3 days, libido is also a bit odwn i have to say
Due in 5 days, is what ive got a comman thing? shoudl i be getting excited?
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So I am 9dpo. I have experienced lower right pelvic cramping and bad lower back pain. The sore bbs started about two days ago, I have also had a sore throat for two days. And the dreams holy moly like 4 crazy dreams a night and I'm not usually a dreamer. Restless night sleep last night. I was in the ER today for chest pain the did a urine sample before xray(even though the said it would be to soon to show in urine) I really haven't experienced any nausea or heartburn which were my signs in previous pregnancies. But I have been really bloated for the last 3 days.,
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Just think that we might all get our BFP by the holidays!  This month would be the PERFECT month.  I would find out by Christmas and surprise my DH and then would be due the day after his birthday!  Oh man!  Gotta keep it cool...!!!!  Good luck ladies! SSBD to all!
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Hi ladies and thanks for wishing me the.best...dont give up ok ladies soon u all will have BFP...I did took hpt and were bfn :'( ....I know that some of the hpt won't detect low hcg levels in your urine...so I'm still positive...well I will post whatever result I get....
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To all who have had AF visit, I am sorry - I understand, totally.  It is so stressful!!

AKD84 - Hang in there, A BFP is good, hopefully things will reverse and beta will rise substantially!

Jessy - I hope your BFP comes soon!
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Hello Ladie,

:( AF showed yesterday. I'm disappointed but I'm not sad. I feel that if I quit obsessing over it so much then it will happen but after the miscarriage all I can think about or want is a baby so its going to be really tough for me. I swear I was pregnant this time I had all of the signs but I guess not. :(

Jessy: I hope you get your BFP ! SSSBD
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Hi ladies!!

Lemenna,LisaL18: Im sorry bout AF arriving..but ladies dont give up!!! hope your next try will b BFP!!!

Tsinclair85: sorry for bfn!!, but keep trying!!, no signs of AF yet??

Fraughter: I think is too early yet..remeber that some ladies will get BFP early but i did a research and most likely we wont know if we preg untill beta test done because some of the HPT wont read low HCG levels...GOOD LUCK NEXT TIME W BFP!!!  SSBD!!!

As for me i went crazy and i did hpt on 5dpt= bfn,6 dpt= bfn,7 dpt= bfn..ugh!!..this 2ww is really anxious...ive been having weird feeling in my right side of my belly..hmmm.weird...well yesterday i had a brown discharge after wiping my self...im excited because thats a good sigh that might be preggo..i had the same discharge on my AF due date with my 3rd child..and it happend exactly yesterday!!..my beta test on friday hopefully is a BFP!!...today is my hubby b-day and i will be doing another hpt to c IF I CAN GET THE MOST EXCITING NEWS FOR HIM W BFP!!...but like i say some hpt wont read low hcg levels :( !!!

Well ladies ill keep posring and dont give up!!!
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I had a BFP on Saturday with a beta of 16 and prog at 4.6 (on the low side).  Then started bleeding on Sunday, and bled Monday - ended on Monday night.  Had another beta morning and it went up from 16 to 40.  But because I bled yesterday, I was really worried that this has ended.  So I went to see the RE this morning, before I could see him - I went straight to the lab and got a blood test done.  Then when I saw the RE, he said the test from today wont tell us much since I just did a beta yesterday.  So UNFORTUNATELY, my beta from today only went up to 44 (was 40 yesterday).  The nurse said that things are not looking good and this pretty much means that the pregnancy is ending.  She said to come back on Friday but things are pretty much done now.  I'm sooooooooooo heartbroken.  Sunday I was so confused when I started bleeding a day after a positive beta.  Then beta went up on Monday but I was still bleeding.  Then the bleeding stopped Monday and the beta didn't rise as much as it should have.  WHAT A ROLLERCOASTER OF EMOTIONS!!!!!
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Hello Ladies,

So I broke down and took a test and it was BFN :(. I'm a bit discouraged but I'm not giving up all hope because AF still hasn't showed and normally she comes exactly 14 DPO. So i'm still waiting. I going to wait a few more days and test again.

SSBD 2 All.
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1459503 tn?1285697232
Hello Ladies,

I am officially 14 dpo Aunt Flo is due today but no sign of here yet, but its still early.  I don't have any noticeable symptoms but symptoms that I get normally when Aunt Flo comes.

sore bbs
mild aches in pelvic area

I'll keep you guys posted and hopefully i'll get my BFP.

SSBD 2 all!
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I am sorry to hear AF visited you today.  Looks like were in the same boat, my temp did drop some today, so maybe soon.  I am hoping it comes tomorrow or the next day, as I have to have u/s by day 3 and I am off on thurs so would be convenient.  

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Maybe try BDing?  I was wondering the same thing since I knew mine should be coming and it finally came today after 3 days of low temps.  Hopefully yours starts soon.  
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Sorry to hear that. I can't believe AF still hasn't come. Good Luck on TTC next month.
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Well I'm out.  The official Beta is negative.  Bummer too I thought for sure this time, had bb tenderness and heartburn.

No AF yet, was due saturday, RE said progesterone probably higher and takes a while to come down.  Looks like we get one more shot at clomid therapy and then if we want to continue have to look into other options.  So maybe December will be my month, just need AF to come - any ideas how to bring her on??
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To: Lemenna, don't give up yet. No AF is a great sign. Maybe your hcg levels aren't high enough yet to get a BFP. SSBD to you. Keep us posted.


I am currently 13 DPO  and AF is due 2mrw. I'm keeping my finger cross and hope she doesn't come.  
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To: fraughter
I have never had a positive on a test that early so probably too early.  My earliest was 9dpo and my ob says that is not usual to get a positive that early.  Maybe give it a couple days?

To All: af still hasn't shown...???  Usually anytime my temp drops my period starts so still confused.  Maybe a miracle will happen and my temps will go back up!  I can wish right?!
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ok so I'm 9 DPO, and Tuesday and Wednesday, I was so nauseous it was horrible. Since then just a lil queazy hear and there. I have been extremely tired. I have quite a bit of discharge. Not really cramps but some weird feelings in the abdomen. Even at 6 dpo felt some twinges in the vagina. Cervix is still high and wet. Took a HPT at 8 dpo and got BFN. Too soon? What do you think?
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My temp dropped all the way this morning...just waiting for af now. :-(
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We will def keep our fingers crossed for you. SSBD!
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fingers are crossed for you good luck girly
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SO CONFUSED!  I have two different opyions as to when I ovulated.  I only tested until I had a positive OPK which without that test my chart on fertility friend says I ovulated on CD19 and with it in there it says CD15.  So that is a pretty big gap.  We BD'd ok for either, but not sure if I am having implantation symptoms today or just getting af anytime.  I hate the not knowing!  Today my temp dropped down to coverline and had minimal spotting on a pantyliner, but no AF.  My BBs are still very sore.  This might make sense of implantation today if the later ovulation date is correct.  It would put me at 9dpo.  Otherwise I am at 14dpo and it could totally be af coming.  I also know that based off cervical mucus it would have been the later date also.  Keep your fingers crossed!  I will update tomorrow to see if temps went back up.  Oh also strange question...Does anyone experience that sensation of feeling like they have their period but not having it?  I mean like when you wear a pad but and you for sure think it feels like your period leaking but there is nothing?  I feel like I am going crazy lol!
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Hi ladies!!
Lisa keep positive,still have more days for ur BETA!!!
And like tsinclair85 said; this will be our BFP present for christmas!!!
I had my 1st fail ivf back on 9/26 when AF camed one week early :(!!! The only symt I remeber was lots of cramps..well this time I did FET..I'm actually 5dpt and my symptoms are hot flashes,mild cramps and light pink spotting..UGH!!!..hope isn't nothing seriously..having my beta on dec 3rd..and my DH bday is the 1st..I know this will be a BFP present for him!!! Well ladies keep posting and SSBD TO  ALL!!!
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I hope everyone had a Blessed and Happy Thanksgiving!

Here are my symptoms from 8DPO and 9DPO:
mild twinging in ovaries, sore BBs(but not very sore)

SSBD to all. I hope we get some BFPs soon. Keep us posted
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Hey everyone in the 2ww - I looks forward to everyone's updates (hopefully BFP's)!!!
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