I tested negative 7dpo, 8dpo, 9dpo, 10dpo, and 11dpo......I guess I should just give it up, hun????

[Nickey1]

OK, I'm new to this forum (just joined a few minute ago) BUT I've been reading forum after forum, and just decided to interact with you all.  Has anyone ever tested negative 11dpo and still was pregnant.  Me and my husband are healthy and have a 10 year old son and a 12 year old daughter (we started young).....I'm 31 and he's 32.....we also conceived twice back in 2000, and unfortunately I aborted (alot going on at that time)......Since we've used the "pull out" method (sorry if TMI) and have not been pregnant since........BUT now that we're both more established (financially, emotionally and mentally), we've been trying again (only 2 months) but have had NO luck.  I've timed everything correct.  I'm becoming OBSESSED with testing, ONLY to be let down.  I'm due to see AF this coming Sunday (2/18/07), and have tested negative so far (even this morning) so should I give it up and just assume that AF will do her thing in the next 3 days??????......Has anyone ever tested this close to AF and received a negative, but later found out that they were pregnant?  I'm at work now (been here since 6am) and have done NOTHING but browse the internet looking for some sort of HOPE.........Please share your stories.......I'm praying that it's still possible, BUT I'm NOT feeling hopeful................

Thanks so much for your time...........Baby dust to ALL!

[ebony2989]

HI MY Name IS EBONY IM 24YRS OLD IVE BEEN TTC for 3months now i ovulated on aug 26th my OPK BY CLEAR BLUE ADVANCE WAS positive so i had sex through out my whole ovulation and fertile window i even laid on my back picked my lags up in the air i took a HPT RITE AID BRAND on SEPTEMBER 3 AND IT WAS VERY FAINT POSITIVE then i took a HCG BLOOD TEST TO CONFIRM IT WAS NEGATIVE 8DPO DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT COULD BE WRONG COULD I STILL BE PREGNANT ??? PS. I HAVE A RAGULAR 28DAY CYCLE MY LMP WAS AUG 17TH LAST FOR 4DAYS IM REALLY STRESSED CAUSE I WANT TO BE PREGNANT AGAIN I HAVE A 5YR OLD DAUGHTER

[aggie2005]

i had a women's wellness exam and the doctor told me by cervix looked bluish which could be an indicator of pregnancy and had me take a urine test that he said could detect pregnancy as early as 5-6 days post conception. It turned out to be negative and he told me to wait a week and take a home test. so of course i've been testing everyday since. well today is a week later and i believe 11dpo and the test was negative so i dont know what to think. by breast began to be slightly tender today, and i had some cramping round 6dpo, but nothing i dont now if i made up in my head otherwise. any ideas?

[Buttonmoon]

Hi this is my first time writing on a forum but 2 ww is killing me ha I ovulated saturday 13th of this month and since then I have had mild cramping in my abdomen nearly every day my nipple have been erect nearly every day on and off I am now 11 dpo my cm is very white and more of if than usual took a test this morning was neg is there still a chance I could be pregnant

[Mandermans]

HI all! This is also my first post. I am 10 DPO today..I took a first response early test yesterday( 9DPO) and ofcourse was negative! I took another one this morning and also was negative. I know its still too early but I read some woman have postive results at 8-9DPO?? So Im losing hope. But I know majority dont get a positive until at least 12 DPO with home tests. Im due for my period on the 5th. Ive been having slight cramping yesterday and today so hoping its implantation cramping?! This is only my husband and I's first month TTC so I shouldnt expect much but its obviously still heartbreaking when you see negative:( Waiting is the hardest!!!! I have a 7 year old girl now ( had her at 19yrs old) and I just turned 27 this month. We are all ready for a new addition to our family! I am planning on taking another home test at 12 DPO which will be Saturday so crossing my fingers! Trying not to get discouraged. GL to all TTC and I will keep everyone posted!

[pepnmocha]

hi:) I'm on the same boat as you, so dont feel bad, we all make choices that we feel at that time is the best choice, but we always go back and question it. Well, hi everybody:) this is my first post.  I took a blood test 9dpo was negative, but I feel very pregnant! my breast are sore, feel full and getting tingeling on the sides of each breast, also can see my veins on my breast dont recall being so transparent before. Started having lower back pain about 4 days ago as well as an abdominal "pinch" on the right side.  Been sleepy, having to take naps, which i normally don't. Been moody and very emotional, which it's not like me either. Not knowing is driving me crazy, of course I been taking millions of home pregnancy test, all also negative. I'm due for my period on the 3rd and i dont have any cramps which by now I usually get them very bad, also been having headaches and i dont suffer from headaches.

[Melissa2002]

I'm sooo confused, please any help is great.  I'm 10DPO and tested with two target brand tests on day 9 and they were both a faint positive.  This morning tested again with first response and was neg?? Any one have any thoughts??

[Justababygirl]

I am glad to hear all of the comments i am 7dpo and tested this morning ofcourse it was neg... I almost cried but then I remeber that my re told me to wait 2 weeks.. Actually he go home and don't have a period.. So I am still very hopeful!

Sticky baby dust to you all!

Just a baby girl

[Nickey1]

AF showed her ugly face this past Sunday..........another 2 week wait to try it again

[Nickey1]

Thanks for the comment, and HOPE!  2 more days to go for AF, and I'm praying she doesn't visit me this month!  Will keep everyone updated.  By the way, what do you think my chances are if I O on the 4th and I BD on the 2nd?

[mslkpage]

Let me make a recommendation- drop the abortion issue on this forum, please. You're not being punished, but many women aren't going to want to hear about it, and won't dish out any sympathy either.

Secondly, you are testing too soon. At 12 dpo, my hcg was only 28.4, and most of the early result tests will pick up hcg at 25+. Wait 2 days and test again with FMU.

[Nickey1]

THANKS mslkpage.........for the heads up........and apologies to everyone, I'm just so caught up in the moment, that I wasn't thinking clearly.........thanks again to everyone for everything.

[rita02]

it could definitely be to early to show a positive result. i have tested both pos/neg at 11dpo when i was indeed pregnant. i would wait a couple of days to test again and use fmu. and remember it can take up to 12 months for a healthy couple to concieve. i hope you get the bfp you are waiting for...God Bless!!

[Jenny100]

With one of my DD's, I tested negative on day 15!! I assumed of course that I was not pregnant and went on with life, only to discover a few weeks later that I WAS pregnant. So don't give up hope!!

[Nickey1]

Maybe God is punishing me for aborting 2 back in year 2000!..........My husband will leave after March 15th and will be gone for 2 months (business) so I REALLY want to get pregnant before he leave, so if I see AF on Sunday, which likely I will since my results are negative at 11dpo, I ONLY have March to try and make it happen..........such a bummer........I've done EVERYTHING correct too, don't know what the problem is.............

[kwame's girl]

I know exactly how you feel. I had my last AF on Jan.2 and tested neg (HCG blood test) on Feb.7. It's been 6 weeks 2 days I feel very pregnangt and still no AF???I have a 14 and 8 year old, started young too. Now 31 and so ready and nothing happening. M/C Nov.5 @ 5 weeks and anxiously awating a + result. Keep up the hope and try to stay positive.

[silirama78]

yes same here except i have no kids and been TTC as well but i haven't seen a period since dec 22nd and have had 3 HPT negatives but i feel pregnant and having cramps. Sometimes don't go by the HPT schedule a blood test because u never know i have an app on wednesday and rule out all possibilities. Good luck @@@