getting pregant with the help of law of attraction

[oklahomanygirl]

i just saw this movie called the secret and its about the law of attraction and according to wikepedia law of attraction is It posits that one should never dwell on the negative, as the metaphysical principle of life is embodied in a "law of attraction": "you get what you think about; your thoughts determine your destiny.  sp if i think about getting pregnant then i will get pregnant.

[oklahomanygirl]

good luck to u 2:)

[Tanker Chic]

Even if thinking positive doesn't change your PG fate, it will give you a better quality of life.  Keep spreading the word.  Best of luck to you.  

[vsentz]

Awweee, that's all it matters girl. I have been TTC'ing for close to a year now. Even tho i got all kinds of 'restrains' and comments from people like me being obsessed or 'just wait!...it's not meant to be right now....it will happen when it's supposed to'......I got up, turned my back to that and seeked for answers. Got them. That's what the movie is about. Wanting is not only waiting for it to happen....wanting is reaching for it. Is WANTING it.
My mom tryed to get pg for 13 years!!!!! 13 YEARS!!!! she got all kinds of testing....nothing was found wrong....my dad (back then wasn't heard of much) didn't wanna get tested...and refused he had something wrong with him.....
My mom begged and begged.....until one day she stood up (back then, society was: women do not have much right to stand up and speak) threatened my dad to leave him if he didn't get tested, got answers, got help.....BAHM!!!! next month was pregnant at the age of 40!!!!
No matter what the outcome is: you wanna be a mother, you CAN be a mother if you WANT to....wether is biological or adoptive child....is the love and motivation that counts.....we find ways to bare with pain, afford big moneys...or waiting for few years......if YOU WANT IT, you reach for it....you WILL have it.....
Good luck to yoU!

[jennieP]

Nobody is saying that everyone can wish themselves pregnant, they are simply saying that for those who have no apparrent reason for not concieving, but just haven't done so, it is possible to shut the process down with your thoughts.  There are a lot of people out there that have medical problems that won't allow them to concieve.  This is a completely different area.  We are all here looking for the same thing, a GLIMPS of HOPE.  I think it is a great idea to use the power of positive thinking to concieve and to keep yourself in good spirits.  God bless those who are giving out words of encouragement.  We all need them in order to stay the happy go lucky people we started out to be.  

[vsentz]

Thank you JennieP!!! my best wishes to you too!!!

Taysmommy......do you NOT understand the words that are written above??????
No one is magician here to want it and *poof!* voala!....

*tip* read it over again...caaaaaaaarefully.......

[oklahomanygirl]

thank u all for your imputs:) i too have been ttc for a yr and 4 months.my ovary was removed in jan due to cyst. before that movie i was very negative about getting pregant...now i changed my thinking process to i can and i will get pregnant!! good luck all:)

[taysmommy]

women have been tring for years, and i mean yearrrrs, you dont think they "really" want it??????

[shishka]

Thank you. You just made my day. I agree that if you want something and if you work very hard to get it you will, sooner or later. Good luck to you all.

[JerzyGirlatHrt]

I think the basic principle in itself makes sense.  It kinda goes along with the whole not stressing out thing.  If you are constantly obsessing, you're raising your blood pressure, you're whacking out your hormones, etc.  That's why so many people get pregnant by "accident" because it's the last thing on their mind.  I'm getting myself in that mindset now.  I've stopped calculating days when I may or may not ovulate, testing like a madwoman, etc.  I figure if it's meant to happen, then it's gonna happen.  If not, then maybe it's just not in my future.  Took a little self restraint at first, but if nothing else, I'm definitely calmer these days, not as stressed, and definitely not so psychotic about bd'ing on a time schedule...that whole thing just really turned me off to ttc to begin with.  I want to enjoy the process so I'll let nature takes it's course.

[L'T]

I have heard about the book and the movie The Secret.. I have just ordered the book. I have heard lots of good feedback on it. I have also heard that it did change their way of thinking and looking at things.. I look forward to it. and if u think about really when we go thru miscariages or problem pregnancy we do have the thought already in mind of a bad outcome. I think it is a natural defense after going thru it after a number of times, so who knows..

[vsentz]

I completely believe that....
altho, it doesn't work that easy, otherwise, yes...we wouldn't have forums like this one.....

What you want YOU can get. Now, it is a matter of ACTING....instead of 'going with the flow in life'......that doesn't work. Period.
Or leaving it to destiny.....no, i know there's a destiny and a very powerful force that rule us (called God by many), but if you just wanna be pregnant and sit on your bottom waiting for it....chances are very slim (unless you don't have any problem getting pg) you will achieve it soon. Unless you are lucky. If you have been trying like heck and nothing....then, most likely something is not working right.....could be as simple as your CM is not watery enough....OR (like my case) a fibroid obstructing my uterus.....

I had tryed (after my mc) for 6 or 7 months....to get pg....and nothing.....I started to feel really bad and started saying that I was NEVER gonna be pg, that i must be a really BAD person so i didn't deserve to be pg.....
That is NOT good, i was pulling a bunch of negativity (negative energy, devils, whatever religion you are, you name it). One day, i stopped. I promised myself i wasn't gonna do negative comments anymore and was gonna be positive.
I seeked help. Went to a psychologyst first and then to an RE. If it wasn't because i got myself out of my own little hole.....i wouldn't have discovered my problem. I pulled positivity....and that cleared my mind and helped me think!.....now i got my answers....
So yes, in theory, if you think positive, you think clearly, and you will act in order to get what you want.....and you will get it!!!!
So yes, it is true.
You decide your path in life, no one else. Do not make statements in your life (negative thoughts) that will lead you to the hardest one to walk thru. Pick the one that you feel in your heart is the correct one. Make positive statements (what you want) towards the universe.....pull the positive vibrations towards YOU.....
Good luck to ya!!! =)

[mommyluv02]

if that really worked then forums like these wouldnt need to exsist.