going to ttc again....scared

[javajess]

my last two pregnancies I m/c very early.  I am now waiting for bloodwork to come back to see why my body isn't keeping the pregnancy, my doctor wants me to schedule a HSG when I get my next AF.  My question.....do you think it would be okay to ttc one more time? Or do you think I shouldn't and wait for the HSG? I'm 38, been ttc to concieve for while, and I'm very anxious to have a little love bundle.  What do you think???

[JerzyGirlatHrt]

My advice is this, it all depends on what you think you can and can't handle.  If you think another m/c is going to break you, I would say hold out for a bit.  If you are willing to take that chance, by all means take it!  Only you can know in your heart what you want to do.

[deanne11]

Yes, they can give me medicine...but obviously nothing is 100%...they will start me on a low dose blood thinner early like 5-6 weeks....if I can make it that long.

I have a wonderful 2 yr old dd and no problems with pregnancy or birth...so GOD has blessed me and given me hope.

[javajess]

I am going to wait and see what the bloodwork finds first before I go through with the HSG.  Your bloodclotting problem, can they give you medication for that?
My results should be within the next two days.  I am hoping they find something there and then I won't have the HSG

[deanne11]

I too was going to have the HSG done just to take a peek at my uterus to see why the babies are not attaching properly....but the last m/c the baby did attach okay.

After 2 very early m/c at 5.5-6 weeks the drs were concerned as I also have a tipped uterus now...seems to have happened since the birth of my first daughter.

Anyway,  I cancelled it as they did find out of my blood clotting disorder so we are assuming that has been the problem all along.

Good luck...I hear it's uncomfortable so I hope that you don't experience that.  But then again, you are a strong woman....I have a feeling you'll do just about anything to ensure a strong and healthy pregnancy next time

May GOD bless you and keep you close to HIM

FAITH IS NOT BELIEVING THAT GOD CAN, IT'S KNOWING THAT HE WILL!

[rita02]

ok i see. i didn't know that is how they checked the uterus for deformities...

[javajess]

my doctor wants a HSG because he wants to see if there are any abnormalities with the uterus

[rita02]

why an hsg? you are not having trouble getting pregnant so why is he worried about your tubes being blocked? have you had an ectopic pregnancy? anyway, i was in the same boat...to ttc or not ttc. my last mc was 11/30/06 and i am currently pregnant again. i just feel like, if i want another child i will have to keep trying. and if that is not part of God's plan then i believe he will take that desire and give me peace about it. a real close friend of mine is frustrated with me because she feels like "here we go again". i just believe that it is my decision, as long as i know the risks. which i am all to familiar with (4 mc). anyway just pray about it and keep your faith. you are in my prayers...God Bless!!