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got a BFN

i got my AF today.... 2 days earlier than expected...didnt even give me a chance to hope for something....
frds how do u all take this...I am feeling so depressed and discouraged.......i dont know what to do.....everything was fine this month...3 follies ok sperm count
I dont have anyone to share my problem with......i want to kill myself now.....on top of this I havenlt seen my parents and family members for 3 years....i just feel so lost and lonely......all my frds have baby all well settled and happy with kids money everything....I have no happiness in my life...there;s nobody who can understand me..I dont know if I will ever get pregnant.....
i really want nobody shud ever ever undergo all this pain
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332747 tn?1198120117
I feel your pain.  I'm going through this experience alone.  I'm single, no dh - and it does feel isolating at times.  I too look forward to seeing what's up with the fertility forum gals.  I'm very sorry to hear about your BFN.  All is not lost though. Getting AF means your still in the game and it's only a matter of time.  
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Thanks for all ur support..You all have been so wonderful, understanding and supportive...U all have become like a family to me....The moment I come back from work I wanna just see what's up with all of you...

I went to RE for my U?S anf found i have cysts from the last cycle so no med for me for this month...
Getting an AF and then not doing any med this month..huh what a month for me.....
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296340 tn?1336164001
I am sorry to hear that.  Trust me babyrush, each one of us in here frustrated and angry when we saw BFN but we are not stoping for trying to conceive.  I feel your pain becuase I was so sure I am pregnant this month becuase I BD right timing and everything suppose to be right.  Guess what, AF visit on Monday.  I frustrated, angried, cried, even got mad at my 2 dogs.  That's normal feeling that we have to go through.

Just hang in there and try for next month.  I am in CD4 now and taking Clomid 100mg.  this month I will do IUI instead of BD.  I want a wonderful news by Christmas.

Good luck to you and God bless.

~Linn~
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I am sorry you are feeling down today. Infertility stinks!!! You will get through this and someday you will hold your new babe and realize it was all worth it. Hang in there, it won't be easy but you can always come here for support. God Bless!!
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294043 tn?1354207946
So sorry about AF!  BFN is always depressing.  I feel like everyone pops out kids around me and it feels so unfair that we have to go through this hell.  Friends with kids just don't get it; they are too wrapped up in their own world.  My heart goes out to you.  And yes, you are right when you say that noone should ever undergo all this pain...
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325424 tn?1203469629
It will be ok.  I know its tuff to go through this stuff.  The whole IF game is unfair, but having our rewards in the end will be a big worth it.  I will be praying for you, hoping you feel better and get through this.  Being away from family is very hard, I am going through that myself.  Please keep your chin up, it will be okay in the end....I promise.

~Sally
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