is it my fault

[mrclbaby1985]

im 22 yr. old i am addicted to sex and or anything having to do with orgams.. i will masterbate about 2 or 3 times a day and then sometimes when my boyfriend comes home we will have sex.. i want to try and have another baby but no baby yet.. we have been trying for about 4 months now.. i lost the last baby due to low heart rate. so we finally decided to try again.. i was woundering if because i masterbate so much is this why we arent getting pregnant.. is it my fault..

[40smama]

I'm going to take a chance and say that masturbation has nothing to do w/getting pregnant or even having a m/c unless your dr has requested that you not engage in any sexual activity.

[Omusicgame]

wow, i think you should really have some will power there.  Like, do you really need to masterbate 3 times a day?  Im just wondering.  Like I used to think I had a problem with masterbating, but now that I hear that you do it 3 times, wow i think.  but yeah, the best thing would probably be to just do it less.  Like, it'll probably suck or youll feel bad when you cant do it as often, but in the long run itll pay off.  Like since I was 14 I used to masterbate constantly.  I did it for many many years.  It came to a point where I didnt even know how to love someone right in front of me.  It was all fantasy, and it made it a little crazy at the same time, because most of my life consisted of fantasy.  So if you feel a little anxious sometimes or just going a little out of your mind, you realize that reality and fantasy are getting involved.  But with the baby thing, it might have something to do with it.  Like for some reason, you might not be able to be pregnant, because in the long run, if that baby is born, it needs a comfortable environment to grow up into.  You can see it that way.  Yeah, you want the baby to be born,  but think of it from the baby's perspective.  It needs a healthy environment, and with you not getting the right pleasure from the one you love, and getting pleasure through your own thoughts and fantasies all the time, then that could lead to some trouble for you and your boyfriend.  And I dont think you want your baby to grow up in any kind of problem world.  Just think about it deeper than you would.  There are reasons for what happens in this life.  And maybe you should just consider it a blessing that the baby hasn't come yet, due to the fact that you and your boyfriend have to be ready.  Thats all Im saying.  So its up to you.