just getting tired

[virgie90]

hello there everyone. im 22 my husband 25, and we have been ttc since july...so far nothing but my hopes getting up and then shattering when my period hits.  dont get me wrong im actually glad to start having a normal period again after 2 years of being so irregular and then eventually being diagnosed with pcos...  well my cycle is roughly 33 days, my period is about 4 to 5 days....

well...from all the trouble and now getting hit very financially hard, im getting so tired...my weight just keeps going up, and now im feeling bad about myself and i cant seem to get out of my house, or exercise, and its gotten to the point where i dont want to have sex, ever...and if i do, i cant seem to get wet, and its really dragging my husband down, i just dont know how to talk to him about it either cuz it seems he doesnt understand...

is it wrong for me to be feeling this way? any simple exercises i can do to help me lose some weight at home and get some confidence back in myself to start trying again for a baby?

any help would be wonderful...

[virgie90]

thanks, its so nice to know that I'm not the only one out there dealing with these issues.  it makes it not seem so hard.

[mrsstewart08]

I dont think its wrong for you im in the exact same position. Everything you described is what Im going through now. Financal & fertility issues can really tear a relationship down especially in our twenties when we should be having our baby showers & not worrying why we have to keep to everyone elses. Wish I had some advice for you, but Im just as lost as you. Hopefully we will start working out & getting back to our normal lives soon & repair our relationships. Just wanted to let you know your not alone ;). But I did read earlier that it can take a normal couple up to a year to.concieve so dont give up yet!