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pregnate or not?

hi ladies,

Im only 16 years old and im worried that i may be pregnate :( I mean pregnacy is a great thing.. when your married but in my case im not.Its been about a month and a half since me and my bf had sex and he used protection of course.. but ive been having some werid symptoms like my lower stomach hurts when i push it in or suck it in and sometimes also in the middle of my stomach.

Ive took about 10 hpt's and they all came negitive but ive heard that their not always accurate.. i took one of them right before my period and one after... and then i took another yesterday night and this morning and they came negitive.... am i worrying too much?

Right now my breast are tender and im not sure if its because of my period coming or if im pregnate..

I told my school nurse about it and she said that it could be all phycological because i have been stressing about it ALOT.

please help,

thanks

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305847 tn?1192797042
Im kinda of in the same boat. Ive been on birth contorl for about a year now and i start on the exact same day every month. Two weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex and i am now 10 days late. I had some brown/pink discarge for a day and thats it. I took two HPT and they both came back negative. For some reason though i feel like I am. I keep having these cramps in my lower stomach and my back hurts but no period my breast aren't tender but im really tired all the time now. The doctor told me that because im on birth control that sometimes i wont have a period but its just stranget that this is the first time that i havent had one. Ive had a couple people tell me that its stress but im not that stressed out. I go to school and to work thats about it. Ive had a couple people tell me that its all in my head but i know that something isn't right. Before i was even expecting my period i had a feeling that something wasn't right. And i think that feeling is a baby. But it just keeps coming up as a BFN.   Im not sure what to do!!
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158812 tn?1189755826
YOUR NOT PREGNANT.  I have NEVER had an innacurate pregnancy test.  I have taken a hundred of them.  I am currently pregnant for the 4th time.
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If you had sex over a month and a half ago you should see a postive on any hpt by now so i doubt if you are pregnant and i think your af backs up that theory! Maybe you should try a second form of birth control along with the condoms this way you can be more sure next time. You are still young and have a bright future ahead of you enjoy it while you can!
Good Luck!
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You could have had an annovulatory cycle, which means you can't be pregnant because you didn't ovulate.  This happens to almost everyone at some point.  It can also explain the breast tenderness you are feeling.
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is anovulatory cycle be painfull?
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well usually its between the 20-28th.

last month i had it on the 26 and it lasted like 3 or 4 days.. but someone had told me you can still be pregnate even if you get it. :(
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It doesn't sound like you are pregnant.  You had your period after you had sex with Boyfriend and although it was only 3-4 days, this accompanied with your Neg Pregnancy results would indicate you are not pregnant.  As for the soreness when you press on your abs, I would say this is not normal.  Anytime you feel discomfort when just pressing, that should be a sign to see your doctor.  It could be anything from a cyst to your menstral cycle or even a STD.  See your DR.  Also the breast soreness, this is a sign of a period coming.  If it is around the outer edge, I would say definetly period coming.  I would not assume you are pregnant, I would see your DR.  
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178698 tn?1228774338
If you've taken 10 home pregnancy tests, and their negative you are not PREGNANT.  

You need to go see your doctor for the pelvic pain.  I think I told you before you could have an ovarian cyst.

Usually if you're pregnant you wake up about 6 time in the middle of the night to urinate.  This is a big sign of early pregnancy symptoms.

If you want to know for your have your doctor take a blood serum pregnancy test.

Why haven't you been to the doctor yet?   Are you afraid to tell your mom?  Just tell her you are having a lot of pelvic pain and then discuss your concerns with the doctor.  Your doctor, by law cannot discuss with your mom that you think you're pregnant.  

But more than likely, it's something else.  GO TO YOUR DOCTOR!!!!!!!     YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT

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173399 tn?1288624656
Don't always trust the HPT tests. In Oct.06 I thought I was pregnant so I purchased the 2 pack of First Response and used one, it came back neg. 2 days later went to have the blood test which came back pos. the next night I used the second HPT just to see the POS line and it came back neg. YOur best bet it to test the HCG levels with the doc.
Having a child at 16 is a struggle especially if you are alone. I was, my son is now 15 and things worked out okay for me. Take care of your self and good luck
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when are you due for your af
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