i had a vasectomy 13 years agp. every time i have a semen analysis they find sperm in my ejaculation. its only about 7 million sperm and there not motile. my wife wants another child how can i help make one
Welcome Aboard Kelly,
I'm sorry to hear about your husband's affair. But one thing doesn't fit right, does the woman he had the affair with know that your husband had a vasectomy? At first I was thinking ... why would she be taking fertility drugs if she knew he had a vasectomy? But I re-read your post and I saw that she is married also. And what makes you think it's your husband's baby? Is she accusing him of being the father? It just seems strange for her to say the baby is your husband's if she knew he had a vasectomy. And to answer your question about the vasectomy, I have heard about VERY small chances of failed vasectomies but that still wouldn't happen JUST because of the fertility drugs. Do you have any fertility problems that you know of?
It's probably more likely that it is her husband's baby but you never know. I'm sorry, I'm sure you alredy know this but the only way to know for sure is to have a paternity test.
I hope you can ease your mind and find out soon.
Trish