Hi!
Unfortunately, the highest FSH value is usually the most prognostic one, and even so, for IVF to be successful, the REs like to see the value less than 10. I don't mean to be overly pessimistic, and none of this means that you can't or won't conceive on your own. It does suggest that you shouldn't waste lots of time and energy on the IVF rollercoaster unless you are willing to consider donor eggs. Why not? My usual advice is don't let a little DNA stand between you and motherhood!
In this day and age, we take too long to "grow up", and our biological clocks are way out of sync with our social timing/lives. Once the dust settles, you may decide that you are blessed and satified with the two you have, or that you would consider donor eggs or even adoption. Wonderful things can happen if you don't close your mind.
Good luck!
Dr B
I am new to this situation but thought I would share. I am 29. I have an 8 year old and a 3 year old. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 24 cycles. We were refered to a fertility doctor and three weeks ago went in for our follow up after a whole bunch of tests. He told me I have premature ovarian failure which in essence is very early menopause. My fsh was 26 and I have occasional night sweats. My period is still bang on regular however is often very very light. I have a low folical count as well. I go back on the 31st to talk about fertility treatments although he also said that donor eggs are about all he figures will work. My other option is homrone replacement therapy which I don't know a lot about. There are so many symptoms that I don't have and even the ones I do are still mild or small yet he is already diagnosing me done for. It sounds like you have a similar situation. Look up premature ovarian failure and see what it tells you about you. Good luck.