14 DY AFT TRANSF IS THER CHANCE OF PREG

[denise2317]

I am just turned 44yo, and a mother of 3.  Had IVF retrieval Oct 6,2010 and Transfer 10/8/2010.  First cycle! using progest suppositories. Blood test in the morning 10/22/2010.  HPT all negative so far. Reason IVF is becz husband had sperm aspiration otherwise could have done it without IVF, history of very fertil. 2 eggs transferred ( A-cat).  Today 10/21> back pain, slight cramps, hit of dark brown spot that vanished. No other discharge.  Swollen boobs/ never had miscarriage B4.   Blood HCG in the AM..    COMMENTS PLEASE!!!! THIS IS DRIVING ME NUTS!  Anyone else have these symptons?  Help

Thanks... Denise

[TAGLAS]

S/S vary from woman to woman. My first ET was on 22Sep10. I took a HPT ON day eight that was negative.  I received a BFN beta on 07Oct10. I say just keep your fingers crossed and pray. HPT aren't alwaYs 100% accurate. Good luck and baby dust to you:)

[TAGLAS]

Hi Denise

So sorry to here about your results. I really admire your strength and courage to keep moving forward. I pray that the site Prosepina listed will be of some help to you. I will keep you in my prayers.

[denise2317]

Well got BT today :(((((  I am okay because I will never stop Loving any child no matter what.  My MD has got a huge battle ahead with me because this to me is about ethics an the will of a woman and not the Dollar.  Sched to see MD in Nov.  Painful ladies.  I am looking for a donor regardless of what MD says.  IVF is very expensive and being a wonderful mother of a healthy child is worth more than giving away thousands of dollars for a chance than might be at the hands of MD.  Would rather find a woman that wants to give and carry than to pay for a technology that could ......  So I prepared my self both faith and emotional for either way because I was only open to giving a child a chance to be a winner in the world.
Any recommendations of a woman that is willing to be a donor/surg? Being a mother does not matter who the child is made of, but loving for the rest of your life is priceless... Bearing and concieving a child from conception until birth is always risky, and women must stick together because we all share a very powerful bond beyond the $$$dollar that that is Love and being the only one that can keep the human species alive...

Ladies---- Keep strong and keep the faith...  I am stronger today than ever... Do not give up, but do not give every single penny you have if you are trying for a chance...  There are women out here that are willing to help!.

Denise

[Prosepina]

hi denise. there's an organ. that gives people embryos. Here's the link:

http://www.seattleweekly.com/2008-11-19/news/local-church-starts-embryo-adoption-service/

I think this is what you're looking for. I've read re similar programs elsewhere!

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
I"m glad you are going to have the test soon!  That is really the only way to find out what exactly the symptoms mean.  No other way to interpret them.  Hope it works for you!
Good luck!
Dr B

[denise2317]

Thanks Taglas
Back pain, cramping now and worried to death.  Brown leakage, from what I read most have this brown pinkish leak.  This is nuts.  Never had a miscarrage, always got pregnant but of course that was naturally.  I will know in the morning...I am praying, and praying...