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After my surgery, what do I do
Well, I went back to the hospital because I had a fever and sharp sharp pains on my right side. They gave me 4 shots to keep my sedated and it didnt work, I still felt the pain. I was out of it but the pain never left. I got another ultrasound and they still couldnt find the baby. The doctors indicated my hcg dropped again from 356 to 328 to 100 I just cried so hard. He ordered for me to have an emergency surgery to find out if the baby was in my tube-ectopic. I had to make this decision within 10 minutes,he indicared the longer I wait the worse off my condition would be and I would lose my tube and ovary and set up an infection. It was scarey for me, I made phone calls, prayed and prayed some more. So I decided to do so. The doctor found the baby attched to my right fallopian tube on the outside and not the inside. So he did remove it and also my ovarian cyst. This pain, I cant describe it, it was so scary and now Im afraid its going to be hard for me to concieve at a later date. What can I do, Im confused.Ive been crying every chance I get. Ive been sleeping alot so I wont think about it. I also have pictures of the procedure and I cry when I look at them. I would like to try again but where do I begin?
I am so sorry to hear of your lost I don't know what to tell you because a I am trying to become pregnant. Continue to pray atleast you know that you can become pregnant alot of ladies on here have been in the sam e situtation and have gone on to have beautiful babies. Keep the faith you are in my prayers.
Wow..I'm so sorry about the loss of your baby and the surgery. That had to be soooo scary, I just can't imagine. I'm sure you just need to think about recouperating right now. It seems like you had a pretty serious and invasive surgery. I think they might tell you to wait a couple of months to try again.
Just hang in there. You will feel better in time. I know those aren't the most assuring words, but it's true. Right now just grieve and get yourself better!
I've had two miscarriages since Dec. (One was pretty intense because I was far along. The second I wasn't that far it's classified as chemical pregnancy) I know how you must feel to lose your baby. After a month I began feeling better, of course I still think about my loss, but not as often as when it first happened.
Again I'm sorry . Concentrate on recouperating, you've been through a lot. I read a lot of books about miscarriages. It sort help convince me that it wasn't my fault and there wasn't really anything I could have done different to save .
Just hang in there. You will feel better in time. I know those aren't the most assuring words, but it's true. Right now just grieve and get yourself better!
I've had two miscarriages since Dec. (One was pretty intense because I was far along. The second I wasn't that far it's classified as chemical pregnancy) I know how you must feel to lose your baby. After a month I began feeling better, of course I still think about my loss, but not as often as when it first happened.
Again I'm sorry . Concentrate on recouperating, you've been through a lot. I read a lot of books about miscarriages. It sort help convince me that it wasn't my fault and there wasn't really anything I could have done different to save .
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