Am i going through 'normal' things?

[mommy1stTime]

i know that i am 8 weeks and all i can think about is if i am going to lose the baby or not i am so terrified of losing this baby and i need to know if this is normal for the first time? i have a friend who has had 3 kids and i have called her at least 3 times a day asking her if the things i was going through was normal or not. just comment me back and let me know if what i am going through as a first timer is normal.

[babylove2006]

Calm down and TRY and RELAX!! I know it's easier said than done. I know you might get more responses if you post this question in the maternal-child section. Good Luck to you!! :):):):)

[deanne11]

Try to relax.  I never had any issues for my first pregnancy...my only worry was after the baby came....SIDS and all that scary stuff.  But I was never ever worried with my first about a m/c.

My pregnancy was wonderful and I now have a healthy - strong 2yr old little girl.

This yr I've had 3 m/c since March....now I'm worried all the time...scared to conceive again...as conceiving is the easy part for me....but I keep losing my babies.

RELAX and enjoy your impending motherhood.

[thetallchic]

I know exactly how you feel.  I am at 7 weeks and worry all the time.  I had a very busy day at work and it was great b/c I actually didn't think about it for hours...  But now I am home and wondering why my breasts aren't sore!!!  Not that they have been since I have been pregnant but I am still wondering.  And when do they kick in anyway???  I am ready for a little cleavage!!  Luckily, I still feel nauseated at various times during the day.  I never thought I'd be happy about that!!  But after a m/c it is a good thing.  I have a second u/s next week and probably will be a basket case until I see my little bean.  Try to relax - we will have plenty to worry about when our little ones arrive!!!