I thought the same after the first one but I guess we always want to try one more time and that has led me to the 5th. They don't get any easier but in my opinion if is going to make me a mother is totally worth it. Hang in there!
I am 8 days past 3 day trasfer. this is our 3rd round at IVF (ICSI) and the 2ww has not got any easier. I am totally stressing out today. Soo emotional, crying at everything. Just wishing it was Friday 16th (that is our test date) have had all the usual symptoms, cramping, sore head, aching back, tender breasts. However those symptoms seemed to have died down now so worrying that is hasn't worked again. was so emotionally drained when it didn't work last time. I am not sure how I am going to cope if it doens't work again. Just have that horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach that is hasn't worked. Has anyone else had those symtoms fade away in the 2nd week but had a BFP?? I need some reassurance.
most gals i chat to on the other forums feel the same way...but they hvent tested yet.i think it is mostly in our heads....i hvent felt the cramping that most p'ple talk abt and that worries me.i had sore bbs bfore the transfer.are u not testing b4 the 16th?
No I am not going to test before the 16th. Tested before date the last time and got negative so going to stick it out this time. When is your test date?? I kinda wish I didn't have any symptoms. Just feel so negative about it all just now. I go back to work next week so hopefully that will keep my mind off things. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Is this your first cycle??
this is my 1st cycle but i am so scared...i like to test earlier so when AF shows up i cry a lito.right now am testing out the trigger every 2 days.maybe i hve some symptoms but i reacted strongly to the stims.i was told to go back on the 21st but there is no way am waiting that long.my transfer was on the 6th,so on the 12th am testing
If embryo has implanted like it should, hcg levels should be high enough by day 11 to show on PT. I did think about testing on the 12th too but think I am going to wait. (too scared to be honest) as long as the 2ww is, at least you can always imagine you are Pregnant for those 2 weeks!. Good luck for Monday.x
u r right,in a way it is best to be fake pg for a few days,i just hate to hve AF earlier than it should,n that's happened a few times.Lots of baby dust to u too.Let me know how u fell day to day so i know what to expect.
Yeah I will let you know how things are going. Up until 6dpt I had cramping and sore bbs but that seems to have all gone now. This is how it felt the other times that is why I am soo worried that it hasn't worked again. I also had twingy feelings on my right side but this has moved over to my left side now (just today) Who knows, as my dad always tells me, what will be will be. Take care. X
I was in my 2ww but tested early good news came I wish the best for you
do not worry,F'xd this is ur cycle,it is too early to give up..i think it is a good thing that u feel symptoms.it is just worse when u dont feel any.Good luck,keep busy...u'll think abt it less n b4 u know it,time to test n BFP God willing.
i am also in 2ww FET was march 1, blood test scheduled for wednesday 3/14. having the same issues as you with symptoms. fingers crossed for you :)
Thanks gals for the good wishes. This is the 1st time I have posted anything on sites like these and I feel better having shared my feelings/symptoms. Just praying everything will work out for all of us. Big congrats liddlboo2012 on the BFP you must be over the moon.
I'm 9dp3dt this have been a dreaded 2ww for me !!
I just did my d3t yesterday. I am so excited. I am seeing an acupuncturist and I feel that has reduced my stress and anxiety tremendously. I have noticed there is alot of changes in how my body and mind feels from this treatment compared to my last.
I have no pain, no cramps and the shots from the stims did not hurt. Last time I had a d5t and could not stay on the table for 15mins after my trnsfr.
This time I feel asleep and they had to come and wake me. I'm surprised I didn't fall of that little table,LOL
Good luck everyone
Well today is 9dpt. Totally distressed. Had some bleeding this morning. Bright red. This happened at this time on my first cycle which failed. Hoping sooo much that it is nothing but fearing the worst. How is everybody else feeling today??
Good Morning honey,
I am wishing you all the best and ability to stop stressing. People never experience sucess or do the things they really want to do as long as they worry about it. Sometimes we worry about the things we do not have and cannot do. Your good cannot get to you if your mind is full of lack. You have no room for blessing if your words words are laced with limitations.
I just read about an 81 year old woman from Rhode Isl., that one that $364 million powerball jackpot. I read some peoples comments that she should not have won because she was too old and her money would be wasted by her family.
We receive blessing at every time of our life. It may not be now through IVF for many of us, but your blessing are there. Just be open to them. Live life positively and they will come at an abundance.
Love you and I will keep you in my prayers.
Tested this morning got a faint bfp :)
Hey there. Wow great news Roborshunice wish you all the very best. Thanks sunflower honey for the encouraging words. It is always easier to think the worst I think. Will listen to your good advice and be more positive about it all in the coming week. How are you feeling? I am sending baby dust and sticky vibes your way. X
Hi! I just started FET (Mar.08) and I am trying to find some support for the 2WW. This is my 2nd FET from 2nd (ICSI), so I had it and it better work already! They transferred 3 embryos ( two- 8 cells and one-4 cells) and in the 2nd day they already called me to tell me I had low progesterone and to start taking the progesterone orally ( so far only vaginal, 3 times x day), so here we go again, now every time I take the progesterone I feel drowsy, which does not help during work. Hopefully they reduce the dose later. Also this time, they have given me estrogens (4times x 1day) and 3 times the hcg shot. Hopefully with all this extra medication it will finally stick! Keep you updated.
Hi enbarcelona. Glad your RE told you, you had low progesterone. Our clinic sends you away with the pesseries and tells you to take them for 2 weeks. They don't check what levels they are. This worries me as I think they should be checking. We are on our 3rd cycle of ICSI and praying it has worked this time. Wishing you all the best. X
thx so much for responding.i really hate 2ww,always seems worse than the previous.Am so sorry annabel,was the bleeding a one off?
congrats Roborshunice and Liddboo,how i wish i could be in ur shoes.I'm tempted to test early though.
I had a rough day ystday, missed a flight and ended up spending a hole day in an airport waiting for the next flight home n when i got there my bag was one of the missing one but am glad am here..but all i was thinking abt was how am not supposed to stress/sit for a long time.sometime there is nothing one can do.
Baby dust to all of u
Thank you Annabel, I guess I should not be complaining then. In my clinic they do blood work at least 3 times during 2 WW. I will keep you updated. Good luck to you too!
Hi how are you feeling today?? Hope you have recovered from you stressful day. My bleed was a one off. I am maybe thinking it s with using the progesterone. Apparently it can cause bleeding in the cervix. That is what I am putting it down to. Trying to be more positive about it all. No point being all doom and gloom until we know for sure. How are you feeling about your test tomorrow?? I will be keeping everything crossed for you. X
I hv recovered,i hve to,my mother in law is visiting for a few days n i hve to do somethings around the house,i wish i didnt hve to.i think i might hve changed my mind a lito.I'll try and test on tuesday or wed...AF could show up on cd 26 which is on thur,dont want any bad surprises.do u guys temp even with IVF?i started tday so i can know atleast when AF is about to show up...dont get me wrong i am positive but i know it could go either way.
Am glad it was a one off.r u better now?was it painful?