DH is SOOO... UGH!!

[mommyluv02]

Ok so many of you know my story if you dont you can read it on my profile.(its a long story) Ok so i got a phone call from DH and he told me that someone that we both used to work with is pregnant and he told her that if she had any questions she could call me. well i like this girl but not the hubby, but i dont know why this is bothering me so much maybe i am just super tired. (work nights) but i just dont feel like giving advise on pregnancy when i cant get pregnant on my own. Am i overreacting? Please tell me if i am i will stop and wont say anything to my DH later. I was at my DDs school when he called me so i couldnt really tell him no thanks. ya know? Ok done venting for now. thanks for listening:)
Amanda

[mommyluv02]

Thanks ladies, I think i was just super tired cause after i took a nap i was soooo much nicer:) I did talk to him about it and he said he was sorry and that he wont do it anymore. Ohhhh i love this man:) So i didnt kill him if i did it would have to be premeditated murder cause i would need him to freeze his sperm:) lol. alright i have to go get ready for work thanks again:)

[needababy]

Well I read this to my hubby and he agreed with me that it is a little bizarre that he would tell her to call you. However men don't always use the brain in their head. They don't always realize how insensitive they can be. But I wouldn't be too hard on him. He probably thought that he was just being nice. Plus if you start a fight then there will be no baby makin!

[scienceteacher79]

You know they don't understand. I think they go along with us to just make us happy. It never seems to affect DH like it does me. He was devastated when we m/c. But never showed it except once. I truly don't think your DH was thinking clearly. Don't be too upset with him. Just explain the last thing you wanna be doing right now is coaching someone through preganacy when you are having such a rough time right now. Try not to kill him...you need the sperm....:)

[lori0615]

I would be upset too, I think you have a right to be upset but my DH said that it's different for men he don't think you should be upset.

So hope that helped.