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519608 tn?1215717994

DPO-15 and scared~

Hello!

I am really scared as a i reach DPO 15. My cycle is usually varies between 28-30 day. AF can show any time... and i can already feel the cramps... does it happen when one gets pregnant? I am really scarrrrrred! I don't want to see her this cycle. Please!!

Here is how my chart looks:

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/20d023
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Hi tweety,
Just now i read this link,,,so glad,,,ur pregnant,,congrats,,,take care,,my love for u,,,,,,,,
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519608 tn?1215717994
Thanks for the wishes!!! And sending SSBD!!!

mommyof3andhopefully4: I think I got a +ve/ DOn't worry - may be you tested too early. Hold on to your self and keep yourself +ve! There is still hope. My prayers for you dear...

I am so glad I had you all next to me to talk to and comfort me.
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443102 tn?1222125946
Hey tweety!

So did you get your BFP for sure?  I am sure you did, a positve is a positive!  I tested this morning at 13 dpo, BFN.  Oh well...

Sorry I haven't responded to your post, I was out of town the last few days!

Heather
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102073 tn?1309549099
Congrats!! LOTS OF SSBD!!!
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Congrat tweety!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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237300 tn?1231454718
tweety-  Congrats!  That is such awesome news.  How are you feeling?  I'm 12DPIUI and I tested yesterday and got a BFN thinking maybe it was too early though...feeling nervous though.  CONGRATS again!
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519608 tn?1215717994
Got some good news to share!!! Yay!!!

I took the test this morning - and guess what! It came +ve! I really hope it was +ve. I couldn't believe my eyes and i was trying to rub my eyes to make sure what I was looking was not just an illusion:). Really wanted to share it with you. I'll take another one soon to make it double sure!!!!! Wow can't believe I made it thru....
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super crampy AF cramps here - so worried as well.
my cycles are ALL over the board.  Used a clear blue easy fertility monitor this month.  Said i o's on CD17.  I am 13 dpo now.  last mo was a 33 day cycle and looks like the smae this month. should know in a few days. eeeks!
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519608 tn?1215717994
I wish the same.... and thanks for being such a support. Can't tell you how comforting it is to know that I can share my thoughts and seek opinion from you all here.

How are you doing?
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519608 tn?1215717994
Thanks for the clarification :). I did look up for those abb. and could just extract the meaning of FRER. Now that i know what SSBD means- thank you thank you thank you!! I think I really need this at this hr.

I am doing a bit better- trying to focus my brain on work and trying hard not to think about taking test, which is tooooo difficult! Just hoping and praying that my temps stays elevated....and get BFP. I might take a test tomm.

How are you doing?
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Your temp is up for 18 days, Its good sign . If it stays like that for more than 21 days , that means  you are pregnant.  
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489000 tn?1364302227
FRER is an abbr. for an early pg test. I had to go look that one up when I first saw it!  And SSBD =  super sticky baby dust!  Too many abbr. on this site, its hard to keep track of them!!!

How are you doing today?
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519608 tn?1215717994
Thanks and congratulations! Send some baby dust our way :). I'll be patient - and will take test in two days. I hope I don' get to see AF and hope the result is BFP too!!!
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Your chart looks promising . You should take HPT  . I hope its BFP. mine got positive at 15 dpo. I am 8 weeks now.  
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519608 tn?1215717994
Sorry dear for sounding silly here. But I didn't understand the abbreviations. What do you mean by FRER and SSBD?
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489000 tn?1364302227
When do you think you'll take a FRER?  Take it soon!!!!!!

SSBD!!!!!!!
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519608 tn?1215717994
mommyof3andhopefully4:

Thanks ya! I really want to test, but I am holding myself off as I am realllllllly scared and nervous of any disappointments. I had that happened in past and when I saw the BFN- i was totally disheartened. I am so afraid of that happening again! I have having a strong feeling/symptom of AF cramps, and that is further adding to my scare level. Feels like it might come any time now. I am not feeling good (mood is low) - just as it happens in PMS. Also started to feel bit soreness around bbs. Which never happens to me around AF. But my ob/gyn said - this could be normal psychic symptom. I am praying hard myself and i hope it is not a psychic symptom! She has asked me to wait for another 3 days.. which seems so far away.

I wish this week is a quick one - and AF doesnt show! I am glad you are with me! Thanks a bunch. I hope this is the month for us! 10 dpo is not bad... you are almost there too. Good luck dear. I'll pray for you as well!

mom2prielle: What is your avg cycle? It could be possible you are testing too early? Don't worry- you will have that feeling again!!
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i am 12dpo - tested on Sat - BFN - but has spotting last nite - so no clue. my cycles are messed up from having DD 2 yrs ago.  i am using the clear blue easy fertility monitor - says i o'd on CD17.
i didnt have any symptoms with DD - just knew i was pregnant - felt it in my heart.  I want that feeling again!
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443102 tn?1222125946
DO IT!  Get a First Reponse and pee away!

Let me know!

I am 10dpo.  I am praying.  Hard.
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519608 tn?1215717994
Thanks for such supporting words.

Today's status: DPO- 17: temp 98.62. I am hoping for the best and for some good news... fingers crossed. my cycle is usually 30-31 days long. I am thinking of taking test day after tomm. what say?
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congratulations on your + results.   I am 12dpiui today and Friday Saturday and Tuesday last week I was crampy -- I am bloated -- bbs are a little tender -- usually a week before AF comes they KILL me but they are not that bad -- I am hoping that means that I will soon have a + result too.

Tweety380 - Hang in there -- I know how you feel me and my husband have been trying for almost 3 years -- we mc in July '05 and just this February -- Fingers crossed for you.
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519608 tn?1215717994
Thanks a bunch dear for the post!  And congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you. Good luck with your 9 month wait..and keep me posted how it goes along.

I too wish the that the temp stays up...and hope the AF doesn't show up this month. (fingers crossed)! We've have been trying since Nov'07. I sometimes feel my bbs are sore- which doesn't happen usually around AF. Feel some stretchiness around stomach area..and cramps are the same as around AF. I am praying hard!!
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489000 tn?1364302227
AF will show up 12-14 days post ov for most women.  The luteal phase does not vary much.  Its the time between af and ov that can vary greatly.  A high temp dpo 15 is a good sign, I have read that any day past 16 or 18 is a good indication.  I hope your temps stay up!

I had a +pg test over 3wks ago.  My only symptoms were cramping and bloating like AF was coming but she didn't.  And my bb's were slightly sore, not as sore as when AF would come.

Good luck!!!!!!  SSBD
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