Aa
I think I'm going to give up so frustrated :(
Ok I was hoping this would be my month. I have been using preseed for 2 month and bd a few days before O on O and a few days after. I was releaxed this month about it and didn't stress. I'm 1 day late ( I should have started yesterday) and today all I have had is a few dark yellow spots and weird pain in my abdomon. I have been vry constipated (sorry tmi) and earlier with bm had red when wiped but that is it. I feel like it means AF is on her way soon. Like some of you others I'm so tired of dealing with it month to month. March 7th will be 1 year since my m/c and I'm tired of being let down EVERY month!! I need to get mentally THERE as far as giving up but I will. I'm sorry for going on and on I'm so dervestated AGAIN!!!
I am just so frustrated. It has always been about trying not to get pregnant. Here I am 25 years old and married and unable to get pregnant for 2 years. Making the decision to have a baby is a big one and then when it doesn't happen month after month, it's awful! Then, I go see a fertility specialist and find out in order to do something as simple as clomid, I have to come in weekly for u/s and bloodwork. I've already had every test imaginable and now I'm in for weekly appointments for up to 6 months of treatment. Next is IUI, how unromantic. It just isn't fair. I know life isn't fair, but seriously it isn't fair! Give me a reason to even keep going with this infertility business as I haven't even got to the intense parts such as daily injections. Thanks for listening.
Oh please let me rephrase that. It's not that I can't stand pregnant LADIES because the ones on here have been in our shoes so I'm totally sorry for that comment!
I'm all about starting our own website :) The mental part is HORRIBLE!!! The funny thing is when I got pregnant with my daughter in 2004 I had given up after 6 years. I said if God wants us to have one we will and if not we will be richer:) Boom pregnant-perfect pregnancy and baby!!! I thought I was done didn't want anymore since I have several female problems and have had severla surgeries I scheduled a hysterictomy for last June and didn't think I could get pregnat and last Feb found out I was pregnant then lost march 7th. My dr said I should be just fine to get pregnant we just never know when my female problems will show up again so we are trying to hurray(yeah right God has his own time :) I do agree w/forgetting it and it will happen but it;s easier to say then do. Right now I can't stand pregnant women--no offense ladies I'm just jealous!!!
LOL about the pregnant ladies!!! I'm so happy for the women on here who are announcing their BFPs because I know they've struggled so long. But that &%*$* picture of the pregnant belly at the top of the page is driving me nuts!!! I wanna cry every time I look at it!!!
Yeah, I can imagine that's tough and I pray that you'll stay hopeful. I still don't know what I'd do without the support of this forum.
But yeah, I noticed the belly at the top and didn't think too much about it until now. I drove by a hospital the other day and the sign out front said something like 350 babies delivered here so far in 2007!!!
The same week somebody asked me to help them print baby shower invitations for their niece who knows she's having a girl!!! I'm happy for them but at the same time impatient for my own!!!
But yeah, I noticed the belly at the top and didn't think too much about it until now. I drove by a hospital the other day and the sign out front said something like 350 babies delivered here so far in 2007!!!
The same week somebody asked me to help them print baby shower invitations for their niece who knows she's having a girl!!! I'm happy for them but at the same time impatient for my own!!!
but you are late, and havent tested right? dont give up hope yet! get out there and buy a test :)
Oh I know that's not what you meant!! I totally understand what you mean. Trust me, I feel EXACTLY the same way :o)
Hang in there! You're not out yet. I'm in the same boat as you. M/C last March and ttc since then with no luck. I had 7 dpo progesterone taken today so hopefully my results will be good. I keep saying I'm going to wait until 14 dpo to test, but I doubt I can wait that long. I took 150 mg of Clomid this month so I'm hoping that did the trick. Lots of baby dust to you! Keep us posted.
Ok so I still haven't started my period so now I'm offically 2 days late. I bought an early response test after work and it came back BFN but with my daughter it didn't even show for 8 weeks I found out with a blood test. I can get one tomorrow but I'm so scared of a BFN!!!! I guess I'll see how I feel tomorrow on what to do or call my dr.
hehehe I notice that picture everytime I get on the site. We have to stay strong I too just want to give up but i have to believe our time will come and hopefully SOON.************SUPER STICKY BABY DUST****************
You're right this is such a head game with mother nature! I can't imagine how you must feel after trying a year.
Are you currently seeing an RE? Maybe your hormones are outta wack.
Sometimes just trying on your own isn't enough. Before you give up completely, see a specialist. ON another note, I've heard you take the pressure off yourself and stop trying you get pregnant.
It's hard to stop thinking about it, esp after a year. Maybe take a mental break away from it all!
Good luck to you
Are you currently seeing an RE? Maybe your hormones are outta wack.
Sometimes just trying on your own isn't enough. Before you give up completely, see a specialist. ON another note, I've heard you take the pressure off yourself and stop trying you get pregnant.
It's hard to stop thinking about it, esp after a year. Maybe take a mental break away from it all!
Good luck to you
I understand your frustration...it's the mental part that really is the worst. I have my friends and bf thinking I'm suicidal because I'm so depressed and frustrated and I just want to sleep all the time. It's so hard when you truly think it's happening and then you just get let down yet again. The up and down roller coaster of emotions is just insane sometimes. Try to hang in there. And if nothing else, we can start our own support group on here of those who are going crazy :o)
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