the doc said that my my sytem isnt ready at all.they might have to take everthing out...
I agree with kindergal. find a good RE and have them run some test. Just don't give up. My mom had trouble having me as well. It's took her 4 years to have me. there are many reasons why and we can't figure by our own. we need dr. check out and tell us. could be your husband and could be you. Both of you need to have some tests to find out what is the cause. Maybe his sperms count low.
good luck and keep us updated.
i havent been to a doc yet i go wed .i know my mom had trouble having me.it taken a few yrs .
Have you been to a doctor and had fertility tests run? That would be your first step.