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Anyone getting ready to start IVF or Fet in October? I feel like these few weeks are taking forever to pass. I had A BFN few weeks back after FET and now have to wait for my day 21 after AF to start on drugs again, I just need to be completely in the POSITIVE ZONE and also share tips for greater chance of success,
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I think I am going to be on the same journey with you! =)  I am still trying to get over my BFN!  It is hard to get over it especially when they pump you up with so much meds!  I go to the RE tomorrow and I am going to see what he suggest we do next!  I will let you know how it turns out!  This is going be my 5th IVF cycle.  My 1st one was a success I have a 3yr old little girl but I also have 3 failed IVF's.
1765952 tn?1314723481
I have twin boys 3 yrs this week,= 1st ivf. a lil girl girl 8 yrs.  = adoption.
I just cant understand why it worked first time and nt this time?? But it hasn't worked and now meds are out of my system i feel better. we have ttc naturally this month, lol really dont know why though as chances are next to none, but miracles happen everyday so you never know.
But i have to have my nxt AF before i can get ready for fet again. have you any lil snowbabies??? Hope we get our BFP soon x
1667598 tn?1303935698
Hello ladies, I will join this October forum.  As you know just received a BFN about a week ago. October will be my last cycle so I will be bombarding God with my prayers, conversation, begging and pleading.  Good luck ladies and I look forward to your support going forth.
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I'm joining this forum too. A little history. TTC 2.5 yrs, 6 meds+IUI cycles which resulted in 2 chemical pregnancies and a blighted ovum. Had laparoscopic surgery and was told my fallopian tubes were too long and not in the ideal position to pick up eggs (never have heard of this and can't even find it on the web). So I opted for my first IVF. I'm excited, but really nervous. I have always considered IVF my fallback plan, so praying it works.  I have been on BC pills for 2.5 weeks and am starting Lupron injections Saturday, retrieval around Oct 9.  I couple quick questions.  The nurse said I could be on Lupron for 4 wks but that sounds wrong. Even three weeks would be close to my retrieval date.  Does this sound wrong to anyone else?  Also, does the retrieval hurt? Lots of luck to us.
1667598 tn?1303935698
Hi girly, welcome aboard to this successful forum.  When the nurse said you can be on Lupron for that long, I believe she meant anywhere for that is the estimated time that frame.  Also the retrieval does not hurt as they put you under.  When you come through and get home you are a little sore, but nothing that you can't handle.  God bless you and welcome aboard.
1765952 tn?1314723481
ooohhh ladies roll on october............. BFP's on this feed x
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Thanks! Glad to have buddies going through the same process.
1667598 tn?1303935698
Hi ladies, how is everyone doing.  Have anyone actually started the process yet?
1236771 tn?1331739811
Hello ladies,

Figured I would jump on board if you don't mind.  I'm just finishing up my BCP, U/S sunday morning and starting lupron on tuesday if all is well.  This will be our 3rd IVF attempt.  

A little background on me - TTC since 02/2009, 3 rounds of clomid=BFN, 2 failed IUI's, 1st IVF=BFP but miscarried at 7.5 weeks, 2nd IVF=BFN, 3rd IVF converted to IUI=BFN and last cycle was canceled due to drop in estrogen levels.

I am poor responder and also poor ovarian reserve.  RE doesn't seem to have much hope of me getting pregant using my own eggs but this is pretty much my only option.  DH doesn't like the idea of DE or adoption.  I only have 2 IUI's and 1 IVF left that will be covered by my insurance so hopefully something will happen soon.

Good luck to you all!!!
1765952 tn?1314723481
I have  a good feeling this time round, im just guttered i have to wait til AF to start, arrrhhh.
hubby keeps saying how great it would be if we fell naturally this month,,,,, i keep thinking you know i could be,,,,, ! feeling so shattered and nt o any meds. However, it would be early days and i know chances are so slim.
I actually cant wait to start inj again. since getting my BFN 11 friends have fell pregs............. I know its selfish of me to feel so down about this, but one of them are thinking of abortion,,,, OMG i feel as though i could strangle her :( but still these are nt my babies and i have to keep positive that our turn is just around the corner,,,,, THINK POSITIVE LADIES, WE WILL BE PREGS SOON, X
1781270 tn?1317126158
Here's to OCTOBER conceptions!! Baby dust all around. I'm 30 yrs old. TTC for 4 years. Currently on lupron starting to stim on Sept 28th. Hopful for a retrival the second week of Oct. Had a failed IVF retrival this time last year. Went into hyperstimulation. No good eggs were retirved. Hopful this time will be different. We are at a new clinic and feel much better about our current protocol. The team is handling us with kid gloves.
1667598 tn?1303935698
wishinanhopin - good for you.  

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