Hey doll, you are 30..... of course you will have a baby... sooner or later:)
There is SO much technology nowadays. Your eggs are young and beautiful so I will slap whoever told you such a stupid thing!!!
My sister in law never had regular periods and got pregnant first time with IVF at 34 and now she is pregnant again, naturally. SO Don't you listen to negative people:)
GOOD LUCK!!!!
PS: It could also be implantation bleeding! ha!!! and you could be pregnant as we speak. You will anyways. I'm 100% SURE!!! you have so much time in your hands.
Go to my journal click on the link about Tribulus, it helps women who do not ovulate regulary and it helps regulate periods. My acupuncturist thinks it is a good idea since she went to a conference about it. I found it on a cheaper website for under $10 a bottle, not the site I found the video on. Watch the video link and see if it sounds like you.
You could be spotting because you are ovulating. Do you take your morning temperature? It helps to figure out where you are in your cycle.
Good luck,
Risa