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Just got back my 2nd Beta...

And it was 23...I'm so sad I don't know what to do we've never gotten this far before.  How do I tell my husband when he gets home, he was sooo excited?  I feel like such a let down to him.

I don't have any more frozen so I'm going to have to go through the whole process again.
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They told me that, "For some reason the embryo did not stay attached but the good news is that you was pregnant so we now know it can happen".  Has any of you had this "chemical pregnancy" before and then get pregnant right away?  I want to start cycle 3 as soon as they say I can.  I heard that the sooner you re-try the better?

I still feel like a piece of sh@!, you know.  Since we have to go through this to get pregnant we know everything way before any "normal" couple who conceives by just being in the missionary possition.  

I'm so confused, disappointed, mad and frustrated, I can't seem to stop crying.

Anyway,  I talked to my sister and she thinks I should wait to tell my husband until I start AF, what do you guys think?

I'm so sorry for the freak-out and I'm so happy I found you guys and this web site...thank you so much for everything.
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178239 tn?1277405491
I'm so sorry. I wish there were something I could say that would help. (((hugs)))
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166219 tn?1267487238
so sorry to hear your news, but everyone is right the fact the you can get PG is a step in the right direction.  Just be honest with DH he will understand and you will need to be there for eachother.  Hang in there you time is VERY close
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189192 tn?1261341628
I don't know if this will help, but one thing to remember is that this really was a success.. even tho it doesn't feel like it right now.. you did get pg and that means the chance of you getting pg again are really good... sorry this time didn't work out for you but try the best you can to see the potential the future holds.. my heart goes out to you..

take care
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186627 tn?1257877774
I'm very sorry.
Did they tell you what they think happened?
Big (((hugs)))
Miky
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Sorry to hear that. Keep your chin up.. at least you know its working. I know he doesnt feel that way=)
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