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233562 tn?1282768382

Looking for TTC Friends #3

Welcome to part three ladies!!! the other post started to take to long to load so here we are beginning another!!


Ladies I am soooooo confused!!!!! I tested this morning and got BFN...:( so sad!!! But my temp this morning was 97.97 up from 97.88 yesterday, so its still rising. My boobs hurt, I had horrible heartburn all night which I never get unless Im pregnant, couldn't sleep for nothing, and was extremely nauseous!! I don't know whats going on...Im on CD34 17dpo AF is usually here by 15dpo 31 day cycles, there is not any sign of her showing. Im so confused and lost, this is crazy!!

Here are the updates:

kurvi - BFP on 16dpo!!!!!!
Itlyncutie - BFP at 15dpo!!!!  
silirama78 - BFP at 14dpo!!!!
wannabamommy - BFP at 12dpo!!!!
chickymama - BFP at 11-12dpo!!!!
ziggysgrl0724 - BFP at 11dpo!!!
Lamb18 - BFP at 10dpo!!!!
ashleighnb - 17dpo
ad_06 - 14dpo
torismommy - 13dpo
aweeonetolove - That b*tch showed up
ashort - That b*tch showed up
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350664 tn?1322826001
Hi girls. I don't think I posted yesterday but OMG I've been sicker than a dog. I have morning sickness morning, noon, and night. Even when I wake up in the middle of the night it's there. I haven't had a break from it in like a week and it's really starting to wear on me. Constant nausea and the feeling like I need to vomit but nothing comes up. I just want to puke so I can feel better. I don't mean to complain. I know it comes with the territory and I'm grateful I have a little bean growing inside me it's just hard b/c DH just doesn't understand how sick I really feel. I made sweedish meatballs last night for dinner and that was a big mistake I was so nauseated I swore I was gonna hurl and hugged the toilet for like an hour. Making dinner is not something I look forward to. Food in general has become something I don't much like to think about....yet I'm hungry a lot. Go figure. So i'm having chicken noodle soup for breakfast haha. I get tired too and like to take a nap in the afternoon. I can't imagine what I would do if I was working right now. Plus on top of it I'm babysitting a friends 6month old Bernadoodle and she has soo much energy and isn't exactly potty trained yet and I just don't have the energy for it. I'll be so glad when they come to pick her up in a week and a half. Ok so I think I'm done venting haha.

Ziggy- I know how you feel about the BD. I haven't had sex with DH since Jan 2nd at first b/c of the spotting and now b/c of the nausea. Poor DH I feel sorry for him.

Itly- I would just go to the ER. That way you can get some anwsers and put your mind to rest. I think you will feel much better if you do. I know that is what I would do.

All you TTC's. Good luck with your BDing and OPK's I know this month is going to be a lucky one also.

TTW's- don't give up hope yet. You just never know when you may be caught off gaurd with that BFP. I was so sure I wasn't preggo last cycle I bought 50 more OPK's. Now I have a stash full haha.
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Hey ladies.  I see a lot has been going down since I was last logged on.

First and foremost itly you better not go anywhere.  You are just as important as ziggy and when you are concerned we are concerned.  Unfortunately, we can't physically be by your side but we are only a computer away and if you need to cry, vent, worry or be excited we are going to be here for you through all of that.

ziggy-so glad to hear that you got to see a heartbeat.  I know with all of your scares you just want to make it out of the danger period and I know that once that happens you will be fine.  I will definitely keep you in my prayers.

kurvi- as much as I hate to admit it I can't wait to get morning sickness.  Then I will really know that my dream is coming true.  But I am still sorry you have to endure it.

Ad-good luck with your OPK's.  I love my first response with the little baby on the front.  The work well for me but I hope you get a nice bright smiley but until then make sure you BD.

awee-thanks for being there for itly when none of us were on.  I am glad that someone could be there in her time of need.  I do hope that you get your BFP this month.  I looked at my due date if I were to get preggo and it would be right on my late grandmother's birthday (that would be so awesome), but I wont be so devestated if I don't get preggo.  I am really just trying to take it easy.

ashort-just cause you don't have symptoms just yet doesn't mean that you are out. I had sore bb's right after ovulation and though that I had to be preggo and of course it was a bFN.  The next month no sore BB's until the end and still a BFN and the cycle after that my bb's were sore only 2 days but my temps stayed high up until I got AF.  The moral of my story is even if your body doesn't notice it there still may be something going on in there.  Keeping my fingers crossed.

lamb-we understand that you have a busy schedule.  I work two jobs and work out and my DH says I am stretching myself thin (but he has two jobs too).  Anyhow just as long as you touch base with us and let us know how everything is going.  Boy it is going to be soo cool when all of us get our BFP's and slowly everyone can compare the progression of their pregnancies.

Ashleigh-as always thanks for the updates.  I know what you mean.  Last july I had to go to my 20 year old baby shower. She was soooo cute preggo and I was like okay I am older and little bit more settled(she lives with her parents) and although I am happy for her I am like when is it going to be my turn.  Besides my male cousin I am the only one out of like 13 or 14 grandchildren that don't have any kids.  My turn needs to come now and so does yours.  When do you normally ovulate?

As for me ladies I was going to wait to get me results until DH's SA were probably ready, but then my mother was anxious to find out.  I tried calling yesterday but they weren't there.  So I called this a.m. and they are going to get back to me.  I should be entering my fertile period this weekend with ovulation next tuesday if I play my cards right.  The EPO (evening primose oil) has been giving me some good CM lets just hope with my body naturally functioning and the EPO I will have some good EWCM.  Well let me get to work now.  I will let you ladies know the results. Ta ta!!
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338830 tn?1229999478
Wow ladies... it seems as I have missed a lot. I am sorry if it seems like I am not posting as much lately, but I think I mentioned it earlier that I have class on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays. I am basically gone all day besides at night. Sorry.... I didn't bounce on ya'll! I still write everyday! I feel empty if I dont log in to MedHelp LOL.

Anywho... HOw is everyone? How is the Bd'ing going? I hope better than my situation. LMAO. I am scared to BD anymore. I kind of want to make it past 12 weeks so my mind can rest a bit you know? Or does that sound stupid? LOL

Itlyn- I think you should go to the ER to put your mind at ease. Seriously, thats what I did and that is what Ziggy did. They assured me that everything was fine, and I am sure they will do the same for you! I would say go sweety so you can get a good nights rest!

Ad_06- I cant wait to hear about your BIG SMILEY! When are you expecting to O? Do u O on different cycle days or on the same one? I cant freakin wait... I am getting so excited with everything!

Ashleigh- So you start OPK's soon! Awesome! I am gonna be stalking you ladies. LMAO. When do u take yours? I always took them in the evening. I know how you feel about others having the babies hun. I am so sorry about your loss and I wish I could give you a hug right now. I am here for you!

Aweone and Ashort- OMG when are you ladies gonna test? Or are you gonna wait until a missed period? Seriously Ashort, I didnt feel pregnant either when I got BFP. My bbs were sore and I was cramping and that is it! You are only 5 dpo (if I read right) and my cramping started first and that came at like 7dpo. So, dont give up hun.

Kurvi- UGHH morning sickness. You know what? I kind of want to have it for a little bit to remind myself that I am pregnant. LOL. I am glad to hear that you are doing good.

Ziggy- How are you feeling today? Has the spotting tapered off yet?

Torismommy- I cant wait to see how your procedure pays off. When do you get your results again? When are you gonna start BDing?

Silirama, Chickymama, and Wannabamommy- How are you all feeling? Any new symptoms?

Well, I am tired... so I think I will get to bed. No class tomorrow, so expect me to be here. LOL. Have a great night ladies!

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233562 tn?1282768382
O I forgot to tell you...My friend who had the baby shower earlier this month, had her baby yesterday!!! She was due Feb 14 but her water broke early. I went to see the little one today at the hospital, he was so cute and little he was only 6lbs 2oz and 19in. I almost cried when I held him, I just wanted to stare at him the whole time. But of course DD was jealous and I couldn't hold him long. I wanted to take him home wiht me. Now I want to be prego more than ever. My due date from my last pregnancy is rapidly approaching and it just more and more depressing everyday that Im not prego. I would be 33 weeks right now. And as depressing as it is I can't stop wanting to know more about peoples pregnancies who are prego now. Im hoping this is my month. If not Im taking a break for a few months.

Sorry needed to vent!!!

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237300 tn?1231454718
ad_06-  Good luck tomorrow. The smileys gave me a positive OPK this month...good luck!
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255732 tn?1318517822
Well I am going to start OPK's tomorrow!! YAY!!!! Finally.....CD 10 tomorrow. DH is going to be excited...lol!!! Well I hope everyone is doing good!! Oh yeah and I am using the smiley's!!! Maybe I'l lhave better luck!
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