Looking for TTC Friends #3

[ashleighnb]

Welcome to part three ladies!!! the other post started to take to long to load so here we are beginning another!!


Ladies I am soooooo confused!!!!! I tested this morning and got BFN...:( so sad!!! But my temp this morning was 97.97 up from 97.88 yesterday, so its still rising. My boobs hurt, I had horrible heartburn all night which I never get unless Im pregnant, couldn't sleep for nothing, and was extremely nauseous!! I don't know whats going on...Im on CD34 17dpo AF is usually here by 15dpo 31 day cycles, there is not any sign of her showing. Im so confused and lost, this is crazy!!

Here are the updates:

kurvi - BFP on 16dpo!!!!!!
Itlyncutie - BFP at 15dpo!!!!  
silirama78 - BFP at 14dpo!!!!
wannabamommy - BFP at 12dpo!!!!
chickymama - BFP at 11-12dpo!!!!
ziggysgrl0724 - BFP at 11dpo!!!
Lamb18 - BFP at 10dpo!!!!
ashleighnb - 17dpo
ad_06 - 14dpo
torismommy - 13dpo
aweeonetolove - That b*tch showed up
ashort - That b*tch showed up

[Itlyncutie87]

Sorry about the last post. I didn't read the rest of what you wrote.

Thank you I'm trying not to worry but I just want to get an ultrasound done so I know what I'm dealing with. Thanks.

[Itlyncutie87]

So your trying to tell me that I don't have a "real problem"


righhhht I don't need anyone who is just going to being me down more than I already am.


Thanks for nothing.

[aweeonetolove]

ltyln -  I don't mean to tease you but I imagine your wee pregnancy hormones matched with your very honest concern is flying to the front.  I'm sure all of us have posted on this forum and not had a response at one time or another. Sometimes I look and there have been over 20 posts since I last posted and that makes it difficult to catch up with everyone and/or respond to everyone.  So chin up.  People here have been very gracious to me and I am sure they are so to you.
Now on to the real problem.  Of course you are worried.  No different than Ziggy's worry.  Spotting is always frightening in early pregnancy.  But you need to relax and remember that it often is of no concern.  Many women (two of my very good friends w/ one of them hemorrhaging) go on after spotting to have a beautiful healthy pregnancy and birth.  Just look at our bfp group, I think two other women here (besides yourself) have spotted and are still doing well.  I know this doesn't help ease the concern or worry. But ultimately you need to find a way to chill and relax.  Worrying is no good. It leads to stress and complicates issues.  So put on a romantic comedy, call up your best friend for a laugh (not a cry), eat tonnes of ice cream with pickles or whatever craving might be attacking you, do some yoga, have a massage, make love, whatever it is you need to relax.  When do you see your Dr?  Till then, demand that all those you love around you, make a business of have helping you chill.  Take care.  

[Itlyncutie87]

well I happy nobody seems to care about me. I have posted alot and no one seems to post back maybe I 'll just leave this post for good.......

[ashort]

Hi Girls, wow I missed a lot today!  So I'm a little bummed...today would've been my due date if I hadn't m/c in June...I'm trying to stay positive though...

Ziggys-  Oh I am sooooo happy for you!  I saw your post in the other forum the other night and I was worried for you.  I'm so glad to hear everything is okay!

lamb-  You make me laugh...that is such a funny story.  I'm not preg....well at least I don't think I am...and I also had a breakdown today.  My principal is sooo mean and her personality clashes with mine.  She was talking to me about lesson plans and I started to cry....so I know what you mean.  Oh and the taxes thing...when Dh and I first got married he hadn't paid his student loan in like a year...he thought it would, "go away"...haha..well they started garnishing his wages and guess what they took MY returns...like $3,000 and I had NOTHING to do with his loans...I was soooooo pissed....so I know how you feel!

chicky-  Thanks for the positive thoughts!  I need them right now....I really don't feel preg. at all...don't think it's my month!

Ashleigh and ad_06- If you can use the smiley's I love them!

wannabe and toris-  I think we are going to go to church this weekend...it can't hurt and we haven't been.  I was raised Baptist but dh is Lutheran and we got married in a Lutheran church.  I also said that Novena...I'm not Catholic but hey I will try anything.  

[Itlyncutie87]

Well once again I have spotting. And I don't know why and I'm getting scared I don't want to have a  miscarriage : ( I have to call my gyno tomorrow and let her know. I hope they can get me in for a ultrasound earlier than next Monday.