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Making myself crazy

Hello everyone. I am in the midst of my 2ww after doing a five day frozen embryo transfer (we did it on thursday, 5/13). I am making myself CRAZY! Yes, my boobs are sore, but not constantly.  Yes, I have some cramping, but on and off, and mostly on one side.  There are so many scenarios going through my head.  This is torture! I am going for my first blood test on Monday, and it can't come soon enough.  Somebody tell me something to make me feel better please!!!
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809236 tn?1280606158
I am so sorry to hear that :( :( :(
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I can't believe it
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You're an angel! thank you! Even though it has no effect on my situation, it's so good to hear that.  
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809236 tn?1280606158
I'm 7.5 weeks pregnant right now and have absolutely no symptoms (haven't had any from the beginning), no sore boobs, no nausea... but I've seen my baby on an ultrasound with a beating heart so I know he's there! :)
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Thanks for saying that.  You're giving me hope.  Do you know this for a fact that it doesn't mean anything?  I feel so discouraged!!
This was actually a frozen cycle.  We did the "fresh" one in February, and it failed.  But before my blood test, I did an HPT and it read positive because it was a chemical pregnancy.  I'm sure you can imagine the devastation I felt after thinking I was pregnant from the HPT.  I swore that I would just wait for the blood test, and until today, I haven't been tempted to even buy one.  I'm going to try to stick it out until tomorrow.
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809236 tn?1280606158
I don't think it means anything at all... If you blood test is tomorrow, a home pregnancy test should show an accurate result today, so if you can bear it, you can give it a try. Best of luck :)
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My breast soreness seems to be gone today, and I'm in a terrible mood.  Do you think this means it's over?
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1197812 tn?1265242806
Hi all.......I too had a blastocyst transfer on Monday may 17. I have had some very sharp twinges over a couple days but now have cramping with no spotting. This is our second try and although we are more relaxed this time I find myself over analyzing everything too. The TWW is the longest wait ever! I am wondering if you can still be pregnant if you don't spot? I wish sticky baby dust to you all!! Love reading all your comments....keep em coming! Good luck everyone!
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Thank you so much for your posts.  I am going out of my mind. All I keep telling myself is that people become pregnant and don't have any symptoms, so I need to stop looking into every little thing going on in my body...Easier said than done!!!
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I also had 5 d FET the same day !! totally understand. I have had mild cramping, no breast soreness and yest a minimal dark spotting, none since. I'm waiting to hear from the clinic to tell me something although I know there is not much to say but to stay calm which is hard with the progesterone shots. My PT is not until next Friday !
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wish I had the answers... but of course... you know I don't : )  But Good Luck and I hope you get you BFP on Monday!!!  I'll keep my fingers and toes crossed!!!
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I don't have any words of wisdom but just wanted to say I am in the same boat and feel the exact same way! I am 9 dpo right now and it is hard not to over-analyze every little cramp, etc. They say try to relax and not obsess, but that is pretty much impossible! I don't have a blood test scheduled but will take an hpt on Sunday at 12 dpo. Sunday can't come soon enough. Good luck to you!
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922048 tn?1387942584
Sounds very nerve wracking! I always swear that time slows down during the TWW! :)

I wish I had some great words of wisdom for you! I do agree that everything you're feeling is probably completely normal! :) But also, please try (as best as you can) to not stress too hard. Try to keep breathing deeply and stay as relaxed as possible. (I know that's easy to say, hard to do!) But implantation will have the best chance of succeeding with your stress level being not too high!

Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope that your BFP will be here very soon! Sending you TONS of SSBD! :)
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982214 tn?1471454781
are you on progesterone? If do it causes alot of the symptoms. Also cramping is normal...when i got my BFP last time my RE sadi the cramping and pulling is normal...so chin up. There is no need to worry yet...I will be in your shoes in 2 more weeks...eeeek!!!!
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