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1145580 tn?1267508175

Not feeling positive at all :(

My Beta is 12/28 and I admit I took my first hpt early this morning...NEGATIVE! I no longer have gas, not too much bloating and I feel like AF is coming. The closer I get to Beta date and AF time the sadder I feel. I don't feel anything! And I'm saddened by this. Anyone here who had symptoms then stopped feeling things but still had a BFP? I need some feedback ladies...PLEASE
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1134766 tn?1329933407
Yay, Poilin, Good to hear!!! :D

Stay positive!!!
xoxooxoxoxox
~Rebecca~
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<HI! Yesterday I had and appointment to see another options for my nex IVF cicle, we have to wait 3 or 4 months before start the cicle. We have a good feeling, we think this year will be possitive for us.



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I am so sorry that your beta didn't double. Mine went up quite abit but then m/c at 6 weeks which is why I needed the D&C.

Good luck since you are starting soon.
I am going to have to wait one or two cycles but as soon as AF comes we will try on our own...will pray for a miracle either naturally or with my next IVF!!!
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1149884 tn?1330520374
Good to know. I will be praying for you!
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THANKS FOR ALL YOUR COMMENTS. WE WILL TRY AGAIN THIS YEAR WE DIDN´T´LOSE OUR FAITH-
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1149884 tn?1330520374
Sorry to hear about the news. Please don't lose faith. It will happen, just try again. I too have been going through it. I have been bleeding, and put on ectopic precautions. Wont know anything until Tuesday. I know how hard it is to hear bad news, just don't lose faith.
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1149884 tn?1330520374
Be strong!!!! Keep the faith and try again. I'll be praying for you
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1149884 tn?1330520374
Frustrated!!!!!! Started bleding yesterday. It felt like a pop and then all this blood. I called my DR who tells me not to go to the ER. He just wanted me to stay in bed put my feet up and relax which is sooooo hard to do. I didn't have any pain just bleeding. Needless to say No bleeding today. Can't wait til Tues for my sono
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1134766 tn?1329933407
I'll always be cheering for you! Your a strong WOMAN!!!!

xoxooxoxox
~Rebecca~
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His, My beta also dropped today to 5 but keep in mind that we will start new year with new beginning. I dunno anything about San Diego. Good Luck  to  all my dearest ladies who are Pregnant and trying to get one.
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Hi I´M new here. I´m very sad today was my HCG and it was NEGATIVE!!! It was may second IVF. The first IVF was possitive but I lost it at 6 weeks. The second one was with frozen embrios. I´m saaaaaaaad. I feel ver bad for my husband :(

I´m from San Diego, I´m with Dr. Wood from la Jolla. Can you recomend me another IVF clinic? I´m sorry because my English is not good, but I have been studing English 6 months.
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1149884 tn?1330520374
Ok so I had another HCG today and it went to 699. However my progesterone went down to 7.07 UGH!!!! He still tells me not to worry, that he has known women to dekiver triplets with such a low progesterone. Freaked me out because although my HCG went up, he put me on ectopic precautions. I do feel fine. U/S is Tuesday
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1149884 tn?1330520374
Thanks guys for all the positive thoughts!! My thoughts and prayers go out to each and everyone of you!!
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1149884 tn?1330520374
So Sorry for the results. However please don't give up the hope. This is ou first attempt and The expense was a killer. It may not happen right away, but put a little aside in a jar. You'll be surprised how much you can save. Once we were able to take a nice vacation that way. It adds up quick. Just put it away and forget about it. Don't touch it. You will soon have enough :)
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1150468 tn?1290506050
Please hang in there. I know it's hard but try to send happy thought all through your body.

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Hang in there.......just like your screen name.  It seems like you may have a positive there.

So excited for you.........Keeping my fingers crossed
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Well, I got a BFN today. I'm not surprised. I'm just not sure where to go from here. I have nothing frozen and don't have enough money to try for a 3rd cycle. I know God will take care of us but I'm just feeling grim right now. Anyway, best wishes to all of you.
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1150468 tn?1290506050
Minu01- I am praying that it doubles the next time you take the test.

I had my 2nd pregnancy test today. The wait for her to call me back was torture. My first one was 432 and the second one is 2075.

Hangingonhope, I’m so happy for your news. And I know what you mean. I want to get excited but I’m scared to get too excited until I hear the heart beat.
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Hey glad your HCG level went up!!!. Thanks for the support. I am keeping the faith or I will try another cycle of IVF...
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1149884 tn?1330520374
minu01-  I refuse to say sorry! keep the faith!!! Nothing is for sure yet ok. I'll be praying too!
care76- keep us posted

I went this morning and more confused then ever. my lining measured at 15 which he said is ok. Just got the call my progesterone went from 2.8 to 8.6 which he says it's low, but doesn't want to worry yet. My HCG went fron 87.2 on 12/24 to 307 today. I know I should be excited, but has anyone gone through this and had a low progesterone and went on to have a viable pregnancy? He said he doesn't expect to see anything on the ultrasound ontil 21 days post transfer, however that's not until next Monday UGH!!!!
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Just got back from having my bloodwork done. Now, I get to wait. I told my RE that I had gotten a negative HPT and she said last week, she had someone who had told her the same thing and ended up with a positive Beta. Hope thats the case with me.

minu01- Sorry about your news. I'll be praying.
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So my RE just called and my beta went up from 70 to 72. SO my RE is concerned that it might not going to be healthy pregnancy or no pregnancy. I am going to continue my progesterone. Going for I guess last Beta on Thursday. Thanks everyone for all the support.
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Make that 3 for me! I am praying that all of us have good results tomorrow.

nikki and ehope- I know what you mean also about our husbands. I told him earlier that I had taken a HPT this morning and it came back negative. The look on his face made me so incredibly sad. I told him that I feel like I'm now failing. Why when the dr. says my uterus looks great, can I not get pregnant?? Oh well. I just have to keep my faith in God that He knows whats best for us.

I've been talking to a friend this evening and told me, even with the negative HPT, don't give up faith. Theres a reason that the RE doesn't want us to take a HPT and want us to come in for a Beta. Lets all try to keep that thought in our minds when we go to bed tonight.

As always, good luck and keep us posted on how tomorrow goes.
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1149884 tn?1330520374
i am sooo scared about tomorrow too. I'm saying a prayer for all of us. Good luck to everyone!!!!
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