Oprah

[StillTrying101]

Anyone watching Oprah today? the subjet is postive thinking or something...anyway I just had my "AH HA" moment! She said you have to ask for it, visiluiaze it, and then let it go, and then it will come. If you are grasping to hard there is no room for what you want to really enter your life.......
I don't know, it sounded really good when She said it!!!

Oh, and Fridays topic is the children of Sperm Donors who are now looking for thier biological dad...

[StillTrying101]

Wow, great story!
Congrats, twin girls too, that is SO exciting.
You are so close, you must be so excited!

[Tima]

I totaly agree with positive thinking and when you have friends and family with positive suggestions, advice and outlook, it really makes a difference. I have watched the Secret video also and it does bring about a different approach to a lot of things. Since then I have always been saying to myself that I am fine, I can go thru this, I am strong. Always be positive. Yes it is hard sometimes but have to redirect the thought process. When I had my FET, that morning I told myself that I will feel the embryoes being deposited in my uterus and will conceive and have a positive outcome. I did feel my 2 embies released in the uterus and saw on the monitor. I have had some scarry moments but always told myself that this is meant to be and everything will be alright. And now I am 34 wks with twin girls. Positivity, patience and faith are great things to have.

[StillTrying101]

I really think I am going to go buy the book tomorrow. I LOVE oprah as well, but to be honest with you, I ussualy HATE her book!!!
I love to read, but her books are like pulling teeth, thats just my personal opnion, obviously it's not shared with very many people!
YES, that fear thing was huge, it makes so much sense! I am always so afraid that it's not gonna work, or that I'm gonna get a BFN...def. reading the book ASAP!

[shishka]

I am a true believer of positive thinking. I have been trying to get pregnant  for almost 4 years. I have had 3 failed IVFs and many IUIs. After my 3rd IVF failed I was lost. Did not know where to go from there. I was only 30 and Doctors never found out what the problem is. I heard about book called "SECRET". I bought the audio of it and listened to it. It truely changed my outlook to life. I went through FET and got pregnant. I really think it is because I was so positive and I almost knew that this time it will work. I did not let the fear to enter my thoughts. Now I am 16 weeks 3days and could not be more hapier. I highly recomend buying that book. Good luck to all of you.

[jjsh44]

I LOVE OPRAH. Yes, I was watching and I often take her advice and TRY to practice what she discusses on some of her shows. I do believe it works but it is hard to achieve sometimes.

[mommywa]

I may have to watch Friday.  I think it is heart breaking when a couple can't concieve on their own and seek to have children this way, then to still have the child searching for their Bio Father.  As if the father that was there through the whole process wasn't enough.  I guess this topic hits a nerve with me.  My sis. may be in this situation, and her poor husband's heart is breaking that he will never have his own biological children.