Out of Sync

[paranoidpatty]

Hello ladies!  I've been quiet because I'm a little depressed.  DH and I are going through some problems so we once again missed this tww.  I can't believe I O'd early on CD11 and was out of town so we didn't BD in time and DH hasn't been in the mood much in between our mood swings.  We're both under a lot of stress but he's under some super serious job stress right now and I think it's affecting his libido. To top it off, according to my calculations, he'll be away for two weeks during my next O date.  I have to wait till my June cycle.  This sucks!!  I'm trying to be understanding to him but I feel selfish because all I can think is that I'm missing another TWW!! I'm trying to stay busy till June but that seems soooo far away!!!  It makes me mad that I can't even try.  It seems like my body has been working against me each month and it's making me mad. Just had to vent.

[pertykitty]

patty how far a;way will he be? if it were close, and i dont know if you work or could take off, but how cool would it be to surpise him (providing he wont be working around the clock) with some champagne, super sexy lingerie, hoochie red lips!! sounds like fun!! stress sure can kill the sex mood. show up at his door with a long coat on with nothing underneath!! just a thought, i should write romance novels!

[tina1111]

That really bites! Maybe slip him a Cialis in his oj? lol jk.  I'm the opposite end of out of sync. Dh and I have been on the marathon bding and cd18 and no o. Last month was cd16. I thought I was finally back in the ballpark. I guess not. B4 mc was always cd12-14 :(

[paranoidpatty]

Cialis, huh. Hmmmm.....in the orange juice... hmmmm....you may be onto something LOL  He's going to be about 7 hours away driving and I can't get off work.  But I do like the idea of the hoochie red lipstick and lingerie. I may just do that when he comes back anyway LOL. Let me know when your first novel comes out LOL.   I'll probably O about 4 days before he comes back though.  But maybe I'll have a late O next time.  

Thanks ladies, you just don't know how your feedback and advice makes me feel better!!

[lil_otis]

Maybe a month off, knowing there is no chance of ttc will be good for you both. Try to relax while he is gone, do something just for you, get a massage or something. Definitely try the sexy lingerie and red lipstick thing, and maybe by June you will feel even better about things!