Ovulation kits?!?!,...please....

[teresa24]

can i use a ovulation kit after a miscarriage to figure out the exact days i can try to conceive again?
or is that just a dumb question ! haha

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

Got it.....I'll reply soon.  Good luck to you.

[teresa24]

well i wrote you an e-mail so hopefully you got it!

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I know it makes me mad to know all these people can have babies and then throw them in the trash.....I hate it its not fair so just know I'm crying right along with you.  The site blocked your email address but I'll answer when I get your email.  Hope you feel better soon.  I got tomorrow and I'm hoping my levels are back to 0 I'm going to start OPK'ing as soon as the bleeding stops.  I'm trying to not let it get me down.  It's hard though.  The only advice I can give you is try when you feel ready......I'm ready now but not everyone can so quickly try again.  I just can't bear to waste anymore time.

[teresa24]

Thank you again!
Yes it seems that crying is all i can do, and its not fair, and when i think about it all i feel is hate, hate for women who don't deserve babies or cant afford to have one, young girls who don't use protection, and get abortion to fix their problem..i know its horrible. grrr...I'm still debating if i wanna try as soon as i can or should i wait a couple months...but Brandi thank you again! you seem like a wonderful person and u do deserve a baby and soon we will both have one!
and i will take you up on writing you!
roxy_teresa1***@**** thats mine!

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

Teresa please know I feel your pain I may cry at any second.  My husband and I have been trying for over 2 years and have had MC (this is #2) in the past 10 months  I don't think there is really any consolance except just cry when you need to.  I don't understand the reasons either I just know it's not fair.  So scream cry and grieve all you need.  That's the only way to heal.  If you need anyone to talk to you can email me anytime  and I hope that you womb is filled again with a healthy little one soon also.
Brandi
BMagill @ deltacos . com

[teresa24]

thank you im so glad i came here all of this has really help reading every bodies questions and answers!
and i am very sorry for your loss as well!
it sucks and i still burst into tears so randomly i just want my baby so bad! after trying for 2 years and this happens just not fair,..everyone says ..everything happens for a reason,..but what was my reason,..ya know..anyways...i do wish you the best of luck and i hope you have a healthy baby soon!

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I'm very sorry I know how you feel.  I started my MC on Monday

[teresa24]

thanks everyone!
my HCG levels when i first was bleeding which was saturday morning was 634 than i went to the doctor on monday it was 42, i go back thursday so hopefully it will be lower and down to zero!

so basically i had my mc about 5 days ago...

[kellym]

I started using them about a week after my M/C and got a + on day 14.  It was different though. My cervix was low and very dry (TMI) and really achy.

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I don't know the answer but I'm going to try peeing as soon as I quit bleeding.  I'm not sure if my HCG is back to 0 but I'm going to test none the less.  I have tons of OPK's so it won't matter if I waste tons of them on the way.  Hope you get your anwers soon.

[tina1111]

Of course you can :) How long ago was mc? Has your Hcg gotten back to 0? If it has o can happen any time after that. OPKs will definitely help pinpoint it.