I have been in and out of this discussion board for years at this point. I tried Fermera...didnt work...geritol..progestrone cream...took supplements.....then i said enough. Being sad every month was unhealthy. I focus on simply being in a good place for now and started doing mindfulness. we were planning to try again in the new year. The first day of my last period was nov 19th. My partner and i due to his work schedule only had sex on my ovulation date twice and i when my period was dues to be here i began to experience the pms i said oh yeah she (my period) is coming. My nipples began to get extremely sore a few days later. I felt cramping in my lower abdominal area and i just thought every day it would be day 1 for dec. The it was day 29, day 31, day 33 then i thought well if my period is not here in the morning I am gonna take a test. I actually took it while i was out and about bc i thought i would be like all the other negative tests as i have had negative hpt and been on day 35. Well low and behold it was my girst BFP since my daughter was born 10 years ago! And it changed instantly i dont think i had a chance to wipe myself or get off of thw toilet before the hpt turned positive! Wow! I couldn't believe it. This is surreal. I feel so blessed. We are extremely happy. All i can say is ladies let go and let God! It will happen despite what the doctors say. They were trying to put me in this unexplained infertility category. But God!