Pregnany Loss

[Babybaw4]

Hi Everbody! I just wanted to updated you on tueday I had went to the doc to get my HCG test and they came back at 1430 whcih a month ago was 1076 so thats not good. Started bleeding wednesday night and went in to the doc and had another HCg thursday and now was down tp 900 past 2-ultrasounds docs didnt see the heartbeat and was measuring 6.5cm so baby hasnt grown and feared the worse :( I continued to bleed and friday I just had enought after sitting in the ER on thursday for 4-hrs then finally being seen they did some things  that was so painful and my emotions got to me and I checked myself out, called my doc the next day and she had me come in yesterday for a D&C, I told her I wanted it to be over as devasting and emotional as it is.  I just didnt want to drag it out any longer and knew that the numbers werent right and ultraounds werent going anywhere. Yesterday I was feeling just tired and emotional tpday the meds wore off and I have bleeding bloating and cramping just like doc said I have some meds she had put me one and she had given me Rograme as I am RH Negative... My husband and I will le my body heal and try again in February. Doc did send my tissue to Genetics to see if Genetics was the cause either myself or my Donor..

[leighanne143]

i am so sorry you are going through this.  i experienced 2 MC's in a 5 month timespan myself, both needing d and c's.  so i know exactly how you feel and how devasting it can be.  But keep in mind that you were able to get pregnant, which is a great thing and you will be pregnant again soon.  after my 2nd MC, me and the fiance went to see a RE, had all the tesitng done and all came back negative, which meant no reason for the MC's.  My last one was Feb 08, by June 08, i was pregnant again and i am now 17 weeks along.  so hang in there, you will be pregnant again in no time.  if you have any questions, feel free to ask.  again i am so sorry for your loss.

[paranoidpatty]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss!!  I hope after you get the genetic testing that your doctor will know where to go from there.

HUGS!

Trish

[Latrice414]

Babybaw i am so sorry for your loss, i had a missed m/c in june and that was my first m/c and i was blown out the water for my parents taught me about a lot of things but they never mentioned about the effects of a m/c on a woman. Let your body heal physically and emotionally, take all the time you need, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Amy0808]

I was worried for you earlier since I haven't seen your post. I am really sorry for your lost and understand how you are feeling now. It takes time to heal...Take care and keep us posted fr. time to time.

[blessedmomof3]

OH, hunny. I am so so sorry. I wish I had some magic words, but I know there are no words that can heal your wonds. Just know I am here if you need to vent.

[Babybaw4]

Thanks Yeah I am taking it easy until maybe February just to let my body heal emotionally and physically. How is everything going with your IUI? Any news yet if you will get a BFP! Well doc said good news is I did get pregnant f ast so she dont see a future issue with me getting pregnant. SHe is taking the fetus and tissue to genetics to see if it was a chromosome whether with me or my donar. So husband wants to try in Dec, I am sure dec will be fine but I just wanted to lose a bit of weight and be stressfree of this, its so exausting getting pregnant.. Best wishes to you I appreciate your support

[Houston79]

I'm sad for you Babybaw!  I understand what it is like.  Good thing you are taking a rest and letting your body heal....Big Hugs MI buddy!

[mommyin10]

I'm so sorry for your loss ! :(  I have a friend who went through the same thing & I know through her how devastating it is.  Take the time you need to work through your emotions & heal your body.  I wish you & dh my very best for the months to come.
Take care !!!

[Babybaw4]

Thanks for your support! my internet was down for a few days and driving me nuts not to get on here. I just wanted it iver with I had sent to the ER on thursday after getting my blood hcg results as they dropped to 900 then i just said I want ot over. Well the ER was horrible I ended up sitting in the waiting room for 3-1/2 hrs and when they finally took me back. it was horrible long story short we signed ourselves out and went home call my doc the next morning and she just asked if I wanted a D&C I said as heartbreaking as it is, Yes just get it over with so I can heel emotionally and physically. Yesterday I was feeling ok, now today I am having alot of cramps and bloating, Doc said thats good just cause my uterus is shrinking. I do appreciate your support as I wish the same for you as well. I will I have been laying down all day as it hurts to walk, but I am glad its over. Take care of yourself and thanks for the support. When do you think you will try again? My doc said she wanted me toi have 2-good periods on my own but we are going to have until after new year when physically, emotionally and finanically ready to do this again and hope we both have a better outcome then this. I should get my genetics pathologist results maybe this week doc will call, I am interested to find out to me it will be a relief as it will feel like a atopsy its better knowing then not ever knowing..

[wishing4#2]

OH I I am sorry! I have been looking for your post and hoping a miracle happened for you! I finished my 2nd miscarriage yesterday, I had taken the medicine which partly worked, then went into the office where the doc basically removed all the tissue right there.  Not quite a d&c, but kind of. The medicine dilated my cervix and the tissue was starting to come out. Yuck, I know. They sent mine to pathology as well. . . .Anyway I feel much better now that it is over! I can now heal and move on.  I am so sorry this happened to you, but I am glad you are looking to the future and have hope for february! You are in my thoughts and prayers!  Next time I wish us both happy and healthy pregnancies!! Take it easy and take care of yourself.

[morgansmommy]

I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dh.  You are a strong lady.

Heather

[Helen72]

I am so very sorry for your loss and the rollercoaster you went through...  
((hugs))

[Babybaw4]

Thats why I wanted the D&C so I can get it over with, I was bleeding wednesday and didnt want to drag this out any longer, so let it go and get my body to heal emotionally and physically...

[needababy]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I have been waiting to hear what the final news was going to be. You are definately in my prayers. I too have been through this twice and I know that it is devastating. I will be praying for you and DH.

[Babybaw4]

Thanks so much.. yeah this is my first so it was painful, bit I am ready to let my body heal and try again in Feb when were ready.. Did you go on and have a healthy pregnany> Thats what I worry about. Thanks for the support

[journey741]

sorry you are going through all of this.  I had a m/c last year and decided to do a d/c.  

[Heather5]

I am so sorry you've had to go through this, Babybaw. I've had two miscarriages myself, so I know how emotionally draining it can be. Please know that we're all here for you...

Hugs!!!