please help me..

[piyush123456]

I am a 21 years old boy studying in 3rd year engineering...i have a girlfriend.she is also 21..we are in relationship since 3 years but we dont have gone through sexual intercourse yet..i want help...for 2 3 days she was getting blood urine..so she went to her family doctor..he knows her medical history..he tested her urine sample and told her that she cant develop a baby in her womb..her internal tissues are damaged so there are maximum chances of having leackages in womb...complexities hav increased in that area...and since same path is for baby,there are very less chances that she can give birth to a baby....apart from this,she faces extreme menstrual cramps during her periods...can anyone please tell me if she can really have a baby or not...she is so nervous since last few days and as i dont hav any idea about these things,i cant help her to get rid of this...please anyone tell me what is the issue and what are the ways to cure these things...thank you in advance..

[mommiKat]

I would go with what a doctor says before asking us.. but my advice is to get a second opinion.  Plenty of women get told they can't have babies, and have them so.. pray about it & get a second opinion.  Also, she want to start seeing an ob/gyn & not a family doctor for this issue.

[Emmers2121]

My sister was told for years she couldn't carry a baby and I now have a beautiful 18 month old niece so dont let them tell you what is impossible, just research more and dont give up hope...on the flip side dont put too much a stress on it either unfortunately I have seen it go the other way where the doctors are right good luck

[katyrb]

I'm sorry, this sound tough for both of you. I would def get a second opinion! Find a fertility Doctor who is an expert in this. I've heard many stories of women who were told they could not have children and then later conceived. If its supposed to happen, it will!

[mariaahm]

Agree with vaneesa "^. No one can really tell apart from doctors. And sorry about ur gf. Dont give up hope cuz how many women been told they cant have babies but miracle do happen. You should check with another doctor for second opinion. Best of luck.

[vanessa0906]

I'm sorry that your girlfriend can't have babies . If your girlfriend went to her doctor and he told her she couldn't and knew her medical history then chances are she can't . But if your still concerned you can go to a different doctor to make sure . Nobody on here can really tell you if she can or not.