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What will you consider a good age to start trying for a baby, i'm 19 soon to be 20 and me and my partnervtried for 2 months on my fertile days but nothing happened. What should i do? I need some advice. Please and thankyou (",)
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I meant I am 22 lol
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1756475 tn?1330538713
your only 19... focus on the wedding planning for now and then start trying.after it   your young enough that it isn't like you are older and need to have a kid now because of fertility issues.  
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It just depends on you and your partner I got married when I was 19 and we hqve 2 kids together im not 22 and a stay at home mother good luck to you guys
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428506 tn?1296557399
Not conceiving in two months is no sign to worry, most reproductive endocrinologists will wait for an otherwise healthy couple to try for a year before doing further investigations.

I mean this in a constructive in supportive way:  There is no "one size fits all" answer to your question about what's a good age to have a child.  Medically speaking, getting pregnant at 35 or later is considered high risk, but lots of women are still able to have healthy babies past that.  Other than medical concerns about age to have a baby, most other factors are personal and will depend on your situation, values, and goals.  
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7634030 tn?1407358368
Whenever you and ur partner think you are ready.  Since you both are stable, go for it.  Everybody trajectory of lives is different.
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9334757 tn?1418159988
Id say 25ish that way you get to experience life in your early 20s.
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We both have good jobs, we are engaged andwe have our own place, we are getting married in Oct 2016. So age wise whats a good age?
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9334757 tn?1418159988
A child cost a lot of money. I had my son when i was 19 because i thought i was ready, less than a month after he was born the father and i split and i was left alone to raise him. Wait till you have a good job, house, and are married.
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When your stable and married
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