desperately i want to conceive

[rasonti]

I'm 28 years old.I'm overweight right now,My weight is 95kg and height 5-5 in inches.My menstrual cycle is regular & is 35 days.Am i not conceiving due to my over weight or their is some other reason involve?What is the best day of my ovulation if my cycle is 35 days?

[Want2BeMama]

Being oveweight makes a little difficult but it shoudnt stand in your way...im really overweight 300 lbs and im currently 20 weeks pregnant with my first, my issue was not ovulating i would still get my periods every month but that dosent mean you ovulate, after being dx with PCOS i was put on metformin and it dint help me ovulate either i seeked help with a specialist and after almost 7 months of trying all different fertility treaments such as clomid, provera and IUIs i was than dx with high prolactin levels was put on meds for that and than i moved into injectables of gonal-f with ovedril and IUI and thas the combo that got me pregnat at first try!

So if i were you i would seek help asap with a specilist they will narrow down whats causing you from not getting pregnant, and i lost about 20 lbs but they say even 10% of ur total body weight could really make a different too!

Good Luck.



-LM

[rasonti]

yes i have monthly regular period.In september 2007 my period day was 14th SEP than next month 13th OCT than on 12 NOV after that their was short cycle and my periods started on on 9th DEC and after that the long cycle of 35 days and i had periods on 15th JAN 2008.Between that i tried many times but could'nt conceive.Well today is 20th FEB but my periods hav'nt started yet.  

[me2angels]

Dear Rasonti,

Overweight can stay in your way but it is not the reason.
Have you visited a fertility doctor?
It is very necessary to visit the fertility doctor also because the cycles are long.

Good luck

[socgirl]

Well, there is a lot to consider here.  Your weight may make it more difficult for you to conceive, but not necessarily.  If your cycles are regular, then you are probably ovulating.  Do you know how long your luteal phase is (time from ovulation to first day of period)?  If not, you can figure that out by charting your basal body temp.  Your temp. should rise slightly after ovulation and stay elevated until your period begins.  You can look up how to chart your bbt online.  Also, have tried using ovulation predictor tests sticks to see when you ovulate?  The best time to try and conceive is the two or three days before ovulation, the day of ovulation, and the day after ovulation.  How long have you been trying to conceive?