help!

[blondie003]

hey everyone, i have a really serious problem and i was wondering if any of you could give me some advice. Last weekend, my boyfriend and I were fooling around, and I was jacking him off. (sorry about the language, but I just want to be blunt) I had his semen on my hands, not a whole lot, but enough...then he put his hands on top of mine while I was doing this to him, it wasn't as if he was doing it to himself or anything, and it was probably a minute or two after he went on my hand, but anyways, he probably put his hand "down there" twice, but only a couple of second, and then he wanted to finger me, but I made him get up and go wash his hands. He came back and fingered me, so probably 10 minutes after his hand touched mine, and could have gotton semen on it, he fingered me. Whenever he fingered me, he didn't actually go "up inside" me, but he was messing around down there. I was wondering if I could be pregenant? I am scared to death and I don't know what to do. I've NEVER been in this situation before and I'm a virgin. I'm also on birth control (seasonal) the kind that you don't have your period for 3 months, but I don't really wanna fall back on that, b/c usually I don't always take it regularly b/c I'm not sexually active, so sometimes I'll have my period if I forget to take a pill or something, but I haven't lately and so everything's been on schedule with my pills and all. I'm really scared and all I've been doing is crying, I'd really like some advice. Thanks. Oh and by the way, he says he washed his hands thoroughly like three times..

[akc2007]

I say you're not pregnant. But if you continue to stress the way you are it will only postpone your period from showing up which will make you freak out even more. Try to calm down...it sounds like his semen wasn't anywhere near where it needs to be to get pregnant.

[babysomeday]

blondie003- I am sure you are not pregnant. Just be careful. But why are you on an infertility website?

[janeforest07]

You're probably not pregnant but you are obviously paraniod. Dont mess around like that.... I know it's not that easy but take it slower. You will feel better.

[blondie003]

my only thing is like, im on seasonale, and its where you take it and don't have a period for 3 months, and then you have it for a week. I dont always take it like i should, but i have been altely, like probably for the past month, does that make my risk higher, or is that okay?..im supposed to start my period in 2 weeks. if i do have my period, does that mean i am definetly 100% no way possible pregenant? thanks so much, im just really worried about this. oh, and he didnt actually go 'inside' of me. it was like..near the top..so i dont know if that would have much to do with it either.

[luvbug02]

If you are on the pill and he washed is hand you are NOT pregnant.