i have been trying for monthsand not been sucessful

[Madalyn1029]

i have been trying to get pregnant since the beginning ofthis 2012 yearand i havenot suceeded it feels  as if tere is something wrong with me because we have sex alott and he lets it all go inside of my ody but the next day it feels like it iscoming back out i really want to get pregnant and when it all comes back out it makes me feel like i will never get pregnant i wantedto be pregnant already by now and i break diwn sometimes becausei am not pregnant and i feel like there is something wrong with me. i have never done drugs i am healthy i really want to start my family please please please please HElp ME! :,(
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[shmeegan]

hey i no how you feel i went through the same thing yeh you need to go and see your gp to do some tests to help put your mind at rest ive always wanted kids and in my previous relationships my exes have made me feel like rubbish sayingwho would want to have kids with you fair enough could been a joke but that always stays with you and makes you ant to prove them wrong after me nd my boyfriend had been trying for a year we went to doctors had tests done and found i had low progesterone less than one i have an appointment next week been waiting couple of months to see consultant and hopefully things will start moving and be able to find out whts wrong. i thought there might be something wrong as wasnt pregant honestly i wuld see your doctor and tell them how you feel your not lone and were all hear to help x

[Swtshae]

I agree with the above. If you truly think something is wrong then it is better to see your specialist sooner than later. If you want to give it a few more months then maybe begin using OPKs and making sure that you're having sex during the right time. Also, I've heard that if you stop trying you get pregnant a lot quicker. I think this is because you're not letting it consume you and you're more relaxed about it. I know it's tough, but I've been trying over a year with nothing yet. I am taking a more relaxed approach this month and just glad all of our fertility test have come back good. I will start clomid next month, but again in the mean time I'm just trying to relax, enjoy my hubby, and let it happen. Relax if you can and think about the next steps you want to take to get your BFP. That may be getting an appointment and beginning the fertility process or getting OPKs and monitoring your cycle and ovulation. Good luck!

[jmcavoy]

Hi Madalyn, you should really set up an appt with your Dr to do some preliminary tests to see what could be wrong. Normally if you've been trying for 6 months and haven't gotten pregnant, there could be other issue. The sperm does not need to stay inside of you as there are millions of little swimmers, so the good ones should be far up inside so don't worry about the stuff that comes out. The Dr could check his sperm count to see if everything is normal with him. Also you want to make sure you are regular, your Dr will check that out for you too. Are you having normal periods? How many days apart are your periods? Which give a little clue on if you are ovulating regularly? Also they can do tests to see if your tubes are blocked.  Me and my hubby were trying for a whole year and after seeing the Dr found out both tubes are blocked within a month. Got tubes removed and did IVF, now I'm 6 weeks pregnant with twins! The sooner you get in the better. I waited a whole year, but if I knew what I know now, I would have gone in after 6 months or less. Especially if you are younger, you should be able to conceive naturally within a few months if nothing is wrong. Good luck in trying to conceive. Feel free to message me if you have any questions.