HI, gurl well im 19 and my bf is 27 also,, and we are going thru a preagnacy scare rigth now like a lot of this woman have told youm think about it first, you have soo much ahead,, I dont think age matter if he truly loves you, I think his old enough to know what he wants but it doesnt nessesarly mena is what you want, think about everything you wana do before having a family,, I think about it now that im going thru thig, GOD BLESS gurl,, wish you the best
i'm 18, and my boyfriend is almost 20, and we're trying to get pregnant too. i dont see age as a big issue, as long as your sure you love eachother. alot of young women these days go for older men, because their stable, and have a house and money, but as long as thats not why your together, then thats good. me and my boyfriend have also been trying for two months, and we both want this soo bad, soo i see where your coming from. i just wanted to wish you the best of luck, and let you know your not alone.
this post was from 7 months ago!! why do they keep bringing old posts up and dont answer current posts when people really need help not like these 18 yrs who have been trying for only two months give me a break!!! this frastruates me!
I think its a bit harsh that this girl asked for some advice because shes upset she cant conceive & all she has got is people lecturing her! If you have no advice for her.. Dont post comments!
Id say think about exactly what you want & how far you will go to get it.
Im currently overweight and in the next few years i plan to become pregnant, at this stage, for me it wouldnt be a good idea. I bucked up my ideas, joined a gym, changed my diet, started on vitamins n changed my view on life.. I too am only 18 and my boyfriend 20.
I wanted a baby so bad! Especially after i miscarried last year but had a real good think for whats best for my baby, im mature enough for a baby but decided to wait while i get extra healthy to give my baby the best start!
Good luck x
I think its a bit harsh that this girl asked for some advice because shes upset she cant conceive & all she has got is people lecturing her! If you have no advice for her.. Dont post comments!
Id say think about exactly what you want & how far you will go to get it.
Im currently overweight and in the next few years i plan to become pregnant, at this stage, for me it wouldnt be a good idea. I bucked up my ideas, joined a gym, changed my diet, started on vitamins n changed my view on life.. I too am only 18 and my boyfriend 20.
I wanted a baby so bad! Especially after i miscarried last year but had a real good think for whats best for my baby, im mature enough for a baby but decided to wait while i get extra healthy to give my baby the best start!
Good luck x
i have a cousin who at the age of 19 had her first child with her still boyfriend, she is now 24 years old with another child both are 6 and 2 years old. she has just been diagnosed with terminal cervical cancer and we don't know how long she has left to live. she will be marrying her partner next weekend after 8 years together.
What i am trying to say is if all us young ones had to do what our elders told us and get our career, get married, save money, buy a home we would all be in our late 30's or 40's struggling to have children. I know some women would prefer there children after they become 30 and i accept those peoples decisions. however if my cousin didn't plan her life the way she has she would never have had 2 wonderful boys, a roof over her head and a partner who love's her unconditionally
I feel some people have to take a good look at themselves before giving information on people they hardly know over an internet community forum as some of us young ones also have trouble conceiving as i am experiencing 2 and a half years after ttc my first child. No offence was meant in this message just giving my opinion