thx for your help im new to this site and everyone has been so helpful im so grateful :-)
I've never used one myself, but I know hormones can be a little out of whack when you're on your period (that's why some women also see irratic temperatures when on their periods), so I would probably wait and start using the microscope after you're done bleeding. Best of luck!
yeah its a ferning microscope and its ferning at the minute
It is possible that you are o'ing. But, not likely. It is most likely the hormones that are causing a false reading. When you say a microscopic o kit, do you mean a ferning microscope? You may want to cross check the result with an opk. They tend to be a little more reliable than the ferning. My dh had positive ferning and I am sure he wasn't o'ing. I am sorry for your loss.