loosing hope

[tinaa007]

i don't know why ..its very painful..and m very depressed... i have been trying to conceive from more then 3 years now with no success.. had done all the tests .. lap in feb, 7 medicated iui's with injectables....  doc says every thing looks normal except my ovaries are polycystic.. for that she did ovarian drilling too.. i have not done ivf coz m lil bit scared of this process.. but cant understand if everyone around me can get pregnant soo fast then why cant i? i dont know if this will ever happen to me? i have never ever seen a bfp.. i dream for it.. is anyone out there who can gimme some hope? i think three years is really a long time to conceive.. is it still possible?

[tinaa007]

that's so inspiring

[Mleo]

All the best..you will be blessed,you r in my prayers tnite.

[Naagh]

thts very inspiring, these are stories tht God wants, so he can change ur story to glorifie his name, hold onto HIM and he wont let u down my dear. money is not everything, just update us today after ur doc appointment ok?


tinaa007- dont loose hope my dear, we all here and above all GOD IS WITH U,

ALL - we shall all smile at the end by HIS special grace, GOD'S TIME IS THE BEST, good luck to us all

[CrissieB]

I totally understand where you are coming from.  I've been dealing with infertility issues since I was 16.  I was diagnosed with endometryosis and was told that it was so bad I would never be able to concieve a child and my best bet was to "just take it all out".  I've gone through countless surgeries to correct this.  My specialist now decided that the tubes where so badly infected that I had to loose them.  So last year we did that surgery.  (I've also lost a marriage do to my "issues")  My husband and I dont have a lot of money, and for us any treatment we looked into wasnt within  our means.  But some where some how the word got out and for our wedding we managed to recieve in gifts the money to have one shot at doing IVF (which is our only option).  I have just had my first ET on Oct 5 and am taking my first test tomorrow.  It is a very demanding process, but trust me whatever the outcome is it will be well worth the journey.  Just go for it.  If you have the means and the want and the will.  Dont let anything stop your dream of being a mother.  We all here support you and are praying for you.  We understand.  God Bless you and give you the strength to make it through this!!!!  Hugs and prayers coming your way.  

[my_baby]

thanks, iiiiiiii started brown spotting today and im very worried , i think i have given hope this cycle but still there is a small hope in the corner of my heart lets c. u r right about ivf it will really break our heart if it doesnt click and so expensive on the other hand , hope everything falls in place soon for all of us

[tinaa007]

good luck sweety

[tinaa007]

wow .. dats so inspiring

[Mleo]

Never loose hope is all i can say...bn thru similar situations,seen many drs and i had endometriosis,lots of ovarian cysts and fibroids and drs decided i was to hve lap to fix what they can otherwise it was impossible for me to conceive.I wasnt gona do it coz i couldnt afford it...The same month i missed my period and he is a beautiful God sent(17 months old).When u least expect it like NOW is the time for u.Be blessed!

[my_baby]

hey im ttc from more passt five yrs so ur not alone for sure

[my_baby]

dont lose hope everything will fall in place since u did so many cycles of iui y not give a try to ivf , im 12dpiui and waiting to c a bfp

[tinaa007]

m trying hard to keep my head up.. but whenever i think of the failure in ivf.. i get terribly scared.. as ivf is our last resort.. what if it fails?  i will not be able to handle it i know..

[Mareski]

Keep your faith. We waited 3 long years and it wasn't until we switched infertility doctors that we started seeing results. I too have PCOS. The first IUI with the new doctor ended in an early miscarriage. Our third attempt (due to financial reasons) we tried injections with timed intercourse. I was doubtful it would work. We are now 19 weeks along.

Keeping you and others who have struggled for so long in my prayers.

[cutepoppy]

see dear you still have a chance to do an ivf and i know you will succeed...look at me i was (note-"was" and no longer now) trying for an year and half...did iui,lap ivf and all...never saw those double lines ever i my life...now its over..m moving to adoption ...all those treatments and expectations kills me so m not trying any more...ivf is fine...go for it...

[tinaa007]

Thanks sweeties.. love u all

[babyhope40527]

Tina, we understand what exactly you are going through. As we all are in the same shoes and fighting hard with infertility. We cant give up the hope yet. A friend of mine you had polycystic ovaries conceived last week after trying for 5 years. She was successful just with injectables. not even IUI. so never know when success taps our door. I am sure IVF will definitely work for you. so stay positive and brave and go ahead for it. Dont get depressed. There are many beautiful days ahead, you are gonna have a teeny meeny sweety angel next year. keep dreaming it. take care hon. we all are with you.

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babyhope

[Kricket212]

Stay strong.  Thing about the end result.  I know it can be hard but if you are already doing IUI, IVF is really not that much more involved.        When they do retrieve the eggs from you, you are under anesthesia for no longer then 20 min.  It's a quick process.

We are all on your side.

[greatmom398]

I would encourage you to not loose hope, I am also trying for a child and it has been half a year, so I always believe that there is a hope, and for the fact that you are a female, you will conceive one and remember that pregnancy mostly occur when least expect it to happen , so please never loose your hope, just have faith that you'll conceive one day